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Not sure what you're saying reflects reality. When Orbital Science's rocket recently exploded, Elon's words were nothing but polite: https://twitter.com/elonmusk/status/527247155954610176 And his comment on their rocket being the butt of a joke, using engines literally made in the 1960s and stored in Siberia were true. It is upsetting, but still not as surprising that they suffered catastrophic failure having such an…
One example of his being polite doesn't mean he doesn't also make fun of competition publicly. Look at the interview where the interviewer asks him about a competitor's electric car (BMW I think) and he just laughs for a not-insignificant amount of time followed by something like "have you seen the thing?"
The "have you seen their car?" comment was from an interview with Bloomberg regarding BYD, not BMW.
He laughed when asked about BMW during the Q2 2013 conference call, but it was a chuckle followed by serious comments. It was only when the questioner began nervously laughing that he laughed for a significant time.
Compilation video containing both events (unfortunately with music, but I don't care enough to track down the individual sources): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Gt6CAswSOY
So, the big criticism here is that… he's too forthright about competitor's products? I'm actually quite ok with that.