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Thanks for pointing me to your article from the HN flame war about MongoDB. If only there were more useful articles like this and less flaming.
You wrote "...in MySQL, the application is king and the db a humble servant." That is exactly my experience, and it leads not only to terrible databases but to piles of awful code written around terrible databases. In 1974 Kernighan and Plauger wrote "Choose a data representation that makes your program simple" (Elements of Programming Style). Other esteemed programmers have said the same thing. A well-designed and normalized database schema with validations and access rules implemented in the database will reduce the amount of application code needed.
I've written about keeping data management code in the database where it belongs (http://typicalprogrammer.com/?p=101), but you make a much clearer argument with real examples. A few years ago the Ruby on Rails people championed the idea of "application databases" and writing HTTP+XML APIs, which probably seemed like a great idea given that few, if any, Rails applications ever had databases that other applications needed to access. Now the NoSQL folks have taken this even further, eliminating structure from the data and all ACID compliance, separating the data from integrity enforcement, all in the name of scalability problems their app might have if they get as big as Google.
I am stuck with MySQL most of the time because I work with broken web applications, and so far all but a couple have used MySQL. As a long-time Oracle and SQL Server programmer I almost cry trying to figure out some of the MySQL databases I come actoss. I am working on one now that uses GUUIDs as primary keys in every table, generated in PHP code, for reasons I can only attribute to ignorance.