I disagree with the title but found myself agreeing with many points in the article. “Don’t be condescending” seems like generally applicable advice. But IMO, sometimes you just know something the code submitter doesn’t (or vise versa) and discussing that can be useful. And i think that’s pretty much teaching!
Yeah, and it doesn't take much to convey that this is a conversation between peers. A couple simple changes I get a lot of mileage out of. Where once I'd have written: "Do [X]" Now I write: "I see [problem Y], consider making [change X] to improve it" If the reviewee agrees then the change is easy and straightforward to make, but if they're unconvinced then the phrasing invites a dialog. Or if I think I see a bug, I'…
That's wisdom, and a clear way to make everyone around you better.
I'd add that being humble should also play a role. We have tastes and insights and preferences, and it's not productive to block PRs because of subjective, non-critical aspects. A working CICD pipeline lowers the cost of pushing a change, this we can always revisit things. It's far more important to have a team that trusts each other and feels confident to push changes fast than it is to have gatekeepers whose role ends up being one of needlessly putting breaks on a team for no justifiable reason.