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Greensboro Man Creates Dating App Where He's the Only Guy Allowed

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Re: Greensboro Man Creates Dating App Where He's the Only Guy Allowed

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Fair point that I had not considered. However, I would not necessarily say desperate but may be risk-taking, strategic thinking, and/or wealthy (enough to handle congestion prices) men

The issue I see is that women would not find guys who had to pay attractive because it implies desperation. So the only women who would go there are specifically the ones looking for a sugar daddy.

Don't worry about that, men already have to pay for dating and it's a non issue.

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post #36

Dating apps are extremely broken, and yet they're almost all owned by a single company: Match Group. I have a suspicion that these apps are left intentionally broken to keep users fruitlessly searching and boost engagement metrics. I can't find a complete list of the companies they've acquired, but last time I checked, Match owns over 20 different apps and dating sites, including Tinder, OkCupid, and Hinge. We really…

What could they do they make them not broken?

Personal opinion? Nothing. Some problems cannot be fixed with a website.

Re: Greensboro Man Creates Dating App Where He's the Only Guy Allowed

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What major dating sites are not owned by Match?

Facebook dating was announced recently. It doesn't really change my argument even if there weren't any major competitors; it's a prime space for entrepreneurs if it is as broken as people claim - there is a pretty low barrier to entry.

why investors don't fund dating https://andrewchen.co/why-investors-dont-fund-dating/

Re: Greensboro Man Creates Dating App Where He's the Only Guy Allowed

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post #67

Here is my "crowd-based" dating app idea: let others do the matching -- i.e. decide which couples fit together....

I think image analysis would work. I've noticed that couples tend to have similar facial features and expressions.

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post #34

I had an idea for a dating app a while back, in which the basic idea is that you pay the service to message someone (above a free weekly limit of say 1 msg). The pricing would be reactive - as popular attractive people get more messages, the more it would cost to message them, growing exponentially in order to limit incoming messages to approx a few a day. Unpopular people who got few messages would have a price that…

> This would hopefully solve the problem of women getting hundreds of messages a day, and men getting neither any incoming messages nor any replies to their outgoing messages.

The former might be solved, but I highly doubt the latter would be.

Re: Greensboro Man Creates Dating App Where He's the Only Guy Allowed

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post #204
post #67

Here is my "crowd-based" dating app idea: let others do the matching -- i.e. decide which couples fit together....

I think image analysis would work. I've noticed that couples tend to have similar facial features and expressions.

this doesn't occur before they are a couple.

Re: Greensboro Man Creates Dating App Where He's the Only Guy Allowed

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post #36

Dating apps are extremely broken, and yet they're almost all owned by a single company: Match Group. I have a suspicion that these apps are left intentionally broken to keep users fruitlessly searching and boost engagement metrics. I can't find a complete list of the companies they've acquired, but last time I checked, Match owns over 20 different apps and dating sites, including Tinder, OkCupid, and Hinge. We really…

Can you say more about what’s not working? I’ve been with my girlfriend three years, just bought a car together. It’s going well! We met on OKcupid. I’m a happy customer, though I don’t think I’ve ever paid them anything.

Things get a bit kookey when you realize their business model depends on people not finding partners. The longer you're single, the longer you're on their platform, so the more money you make them. There's no incentive for them to actually match you with anyone apart from trust.

I suspect a lot of people would be far more interested in a "pay us $X, money back guarantee if you don't get a date" kind of service. At least that way your and the company's interests are aligned.

Re: Greensboro Man Creates Dating App Where He's the Only Guy Allowed

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Can you say more about what’s not working? I’ve been with my girlfriend three years, just bought a car together. It’s going well! We met on OKcupid. I’m a happy customer, though I don’t think I’ve ever paid them anything.

OKCupid has really been pushed to adopt the tinder based swipe approach in the past 2 years or so. They've also had a few big PR screw ups with forcing users to present their real names and really shifting the feature set to be more like Tinder now. It's really not the same as okcupid from 4 years ago

Yes, that's the impact of Match Group buying OkCupid. They've just about entirely completed homogenization with their other dating apps.

Re: Greensboro Man Creates Dating App Where He's the Only Guy Allowed

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> except that the payment goes to the recipient I believe you just described escorting/prostitution. Not that I am against sex work, but that app would be DOA.

Have you seen https://www.whatsyourprice.com/ ? Most amazing spin ever. Here's the ad targeted at women https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GK2MrUOfAPE and the one targeted at men https://vimeo.com/21179683 Also https://misstravel.com and their pitch https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JLSiy4nUvnc

Wow, this is as close to escorting as it gets.

I could think of a gentle spin where the money would go to pay the date (restaurant/drinks/activity), which is expensive anyway, but the way it's framed I am speechless.

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