The following blog post provides examples of swung beats and clapping, as it pertains to dancing: http://vixswingjazz.wordpress.com/2013/03/18/can-you-hear-th... A few songs are missing from the page: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFtNC8BwKI0 (Dinah; NSFW) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8YqDbd6pUC0 (Everything is Jumping) To get a feel for clapping on the even beats: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z_WZenJnT8M (Sh…
I play the Lavender Coffin track. I listen to it carefully. I replay it and try to clap on the claps. I fail. I try again. I still fail. I listen to the song again. I replay the track, but this time try to tap my finger (which is easier than clapping) and I still fail. Will it get easier or am I just "beatdeaf"? (Here I can clearly hear the 1 2 3 4, and the claps, but I just cannot match the claps on 2 and 4.)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=REzz-My2PoI#t=100
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Joo90ZWrUkU#t=20
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8Tiz6INF7I
It takes practice. Newer dancers clap on 1 & 3 until they learn. Sometimes all it takes is for someone to clap quite loudly (almost passively-aggressively so) on the 2 & 4 for the rest of the people to shift over.