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Is it bad practice to use your real name online?

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Re: Is it bad practice to use your real name online?

#21
I stand firmly behind everything I do on the internet or otherwise knowing full well the capability for people to take things out of context or cherry pick.

Having it out there allows for a full audit of what I am doing on the back end. On the front end, it ensures I am thinking through what I am writing so that I can ensure it reflects what I intend it to even if it is not all positive.

Re: Is it bad practice to use your real name online?

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post #19

I am prejudiced against people who use their real names when the website allows them to use a nickname: I automatically assume they will be uninteresting, their opinions sheepish and will always avoid confrontation or controversial ideas. I feel like they are always talking in the presence of their mother.

Here is a n=1 for you: I just forcefully argued against male circumcision on Reddit. Check it out if you like.

Re: Is it bad practice to use your real name online?

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post #19

I am prejudiced against people who use their real names when the website allows them to use a nickname: I automatically assume they will be uninteresting, their opinions sheepish and will always avoid confrontation or controversial ideas. I feel like they are always talking in the presence of their mother.

I have to agree with you. The beauty of anonymity is that people speak their minds, unrestrained from social impetus. Although anonymity is a double edged sword, I believe that the blunt, raw truth is much more valuable than a veiled, politically correct, socially acceptable response. This is one of the reasons why 4chan is such a popular place, everyone speaks their mind without having to worry about karma/internet points or how their opinions will impact their real lives from doxxing and such.

I maintain two identities on most social sites/chatrooms/hn; one that uses my online alias, and one that uses an abbreviation of my name (bsamuels). Whenever I feel like voicing an uncomfortable or controversial opinion, I use the online alias.

Re: Is it bad practice to use your real name online?

#24

I don't mind using my real name online because it is stupidly generic (Daniel Levin). If someone wanted to identify me, my name wouldn't be of much help to them. This is interesting because my real name is less useful in being identifying than a screen name used on multiple websites

My name is also highly generic (one notch below John Smith) to the point where good friends haven't been able to find me on facebook.

Re: Is it bad practice to use your real name online?

#25
post #19

I am prejudiced against people who use their real names when the website allows them to use a nickname: I automatically assume they will be uninteresting, their opinions sheepish and will always avoid confrontation or controversial ideas. I feel like they are always talking in the presence of their mother.

Here is a n=1 for you: I just forcefully argued against male circumcision on Reddit. Check it out if you like.

I guess you have a different idea of controversial than return0.

Re: Is it bad practice to use your real name online?

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post #19

I am prejudiced against people who use their real names when the website allows them to use a nickname: I automatically assume they will be uninteresting, their opinions sheepish and will always avoid confrontation or controversial ideas. I feel like they are always talking in the presence of their mother.

Here is a n=1 for you: I just forcefully argued against male circumcision on Reddit. Check it out if you like.

That is not a particularly controversial point; I think pretty much everyone agrees now that genital mutilation of babies is wrong.

Re: Is it bad practice to use your real name online?

#27

I stand firmly behind everything I do on the internet or otherwise knowing full well the capability for people to take things out of context or cherry pick. Having it out there allows for a full audit of what I am doing on the back end. On the front end, it ensures I am thinking through what I am writing so that I can ensure it reflects what I intend it to even if it is not all positive.

The issue is when people will go on a witch hunt for something you say without being compassionate and helping you understand their or a different point of view - whether it is something you said in the present moment or well in the past.

Re: Is it bad practice to use your real name online?

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post #19

I am prejudiced against people who use their real names when the website allows them to use a nickname: I automatically assume they will be uninteresting, their opinions sheepish and will always avoid confrontation or controversial ideas. I feel like they are always talking in the presence of their mother.

I'm happy to use my real name, and if you are talking shit I am happy to tell you. I assume pretty much the same as you, but the other way around: If people use their real name and confront me I am a lot more likely to take on board what they are saying, than someone who uses a pseudonym. I assume they are just trying to be confrontational and start an argument.

Edit: Actually it depends on the community. I would not use my real name on 4chan, but here and Reddit I am happy to. I don't get involved with any communities where there is a risk of really pissing someone or law enforcement off however.

Re: Is it bad practice to use your real name online?

#30

I dislike using my real name online - though in some cases (like HN) it's pretty trivial to discover my identity. My real fear isn't having my more rant-y posts associated with my IRL life, but more extreme possibilities like 4chan/Reddit doxxings and abuse. I also no longer use the same handle as when I was a kid, so I've got that going for me.

I feel like the Internet has gotten the same treatment that hitchhiking has gotten - stories make it seem dangerous, but when measured, the danger is much lower than expected.
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