I am going to approach this a bit from the other side. And I'll make it personal, rather than asking a series of indirect questions.
More than once, I've ended up in a position where I've put considerable effort into fixing what are often frankly the shortcomings of other co-workers. Co-workers who sometimes may be observed to be very busy discussing their weekends, or the latest movie, etc.
I've fixed conditions that come about as the employees responsible continue to be rewarded, promoted, etc. -- in short, considered "acceptable".
I tried to do what I felt and what I had been taught was "the right thing".
IN HINDSIGHT: When you find yourself persistently in such conditions, when the problem is not a one-off, GET THE FUCK OUT. Unless you can very demonstratively take control of the situation -- of the conditions -- and steer it in a better direction, you are caught in a system that will chew you up at the least and most likely, sooner or later, spit you out.
As a relatively unempowered employee, the single solution to bad management and counter-productive compensation, is to GET THE FUCK OUT.
Anything that prevents your mobility, e.g. employer-provided health insurance, a non-liquid mortgage -- I won't, I refuse to, add "a family" to this list. But otherwise, any such thing becomes an anti-pattern.
One perspective on what is wrong with U.S. society these days: So many people locked into anti-patterns.