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This Guy’s Wife Got Cancer, So He Did Something Unforgettable.

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Re: This Guy’s Wife Got Cancer, So He Did Something Unforgettable.

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What bothers me the most about this article, the charity work, the pink ribbons.

We have no idea what causes cancers, particularly breast cancer, in those who are young. We know some people carry risk factors (BRCA1 and BRCA2, certain subvariations of each) in their genes, and yet not all cases of people with the genes will get cancer, and not all people who get cancer young have any gene (in fact, most don't).

We also don't know why some cancers metastasized and some don't. Most women who get breast cancer at her age (39-40) survive.

I say this as someone who is extremely high risk (high enough that I have not hit thirty and I'm hunting for a new breast specialist who can get me MRIs instead of mammograms). I'd like to be able to know what to cut out to decrease my risk, beyond generic eat right and exercise (and I do eat right and exercise). I'm a tad angry that information is not available to me (I've looked). Because on a personal level, I'd like to stop seeing younger cancer cases.

Re: This Guy’s Wife Got Cancer, So He Did Something Unforgettable.

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post #4

Very touching. My own wife (at 33) was diagnosed with breast cancer this year, but I feel almost guilty to say everything turned out okay (we believe). The disease is a motherfucker. I can't imagine watching someone I love going through the later stages, unable to protect them. Now back to my regularly scheduled trolling.

Don't feel guilty. Though if you haven't had kids yet and both of you want them, I hope you spoke to her oncologist about how to deal. If not, young survival coalition has some information on fertility and BC

http://www.youngsurvival.org/

Re: This Guy’s Wife Got Cancer, So He Did Something Unforgettable.

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At a previous job, I helped out on the web side for a photojournalist who spent a year documenting a mom and her young son's last year fighting cancer. http://www.pulitzer.org/archives/8358 I saw those photos countless times up to production, and even years later when I come across them (the project won a Pulitzer and so is occasionally linked to today) I'll still tear up. It's funny that the blogspam title for the O…

Thanks for sharing this.

Re: This Guy’s Wife Got Cancer, So He Did Something Unforgettable.

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post #15

At a previous job, I helped out on the web side for a photojournalist who spent a year documenting a mom and her young son's last year fighting cancer. http://www.pulitzer.org/archives/8358 I saw those photos countless times up to production, and even years later when I come across them (the project won a Pulitzer and so is occasionally linked to today) I'll still tear up. It's funny that the blogspam title for the O…

God...

what can I say? Disease is such a sad part of humanity. What a shame we can't eradicate it. People are having so many children in poorer parts just because they know not many will make it, from either disease or poverty, thinning out our resources even further. When will it stop?

When will captialism be thrown under the rug so that real medical and scientific progress can erupt?

Re: This Guy’s Wife Got Cancer, So He Did Something Unforgettable.

#27
This touches a personal chord. My dad recently died of IPF and while its not in the same category as cancer I'd say its a terrible journey to have a disease that literally takes your breath away, and not in a good way.

I personally understood how support systems fail, how folks would rather always hear that you are getting better but with IPF - you only get worse. IPF is as common in the US as breast cancer, the difference being that it is 100% fatal in 2-5 years on average. (Lung transplants can improve longevity but eventually fail)

This person's story is deeply meaningful and told in a profoundly beautiful way. I wish I could tell my dad's story with IPF in a similar way. I'm trying to spread awareness with a blog on IPF and by donating to the pulmonary fibrosis foundation, just wondering about what else I could do. Awareness is super important!

IPF - Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis - http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Idiopathic_pulmonary_fibrosis

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