Some people need extreme transformations like this to be successful. Most people, however, don't.
You'll have a much higher success rate if you're patient and change just one little thing at a time. Once you're comfortable, you move on to the next.
I myself have lost over 30lbs and increased strength tremendously (power clean 250+).
I went about it by doing one small thing at time. First I got used to going to the gym a couple days at a time. Once I was used to going to the gym, I started a strength program. Once I was used to going to the gym and being on a program, I started crossfit. Then after I was used to that, I started omitting wheat from my diet. Once I was used to that...you get the point.