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Re: Ask HN: I am programmer, i wan't to die, what can i do?

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First: Stop eating shitty food. Srsly, most depression cases can be cured with Diet and Exercise ONLY.

This is such a lie.

For situational depression it can. Clinical depression is an entire other beats, but regular exercise increases the levels of serotonin in your brain and releases more endorphins that elevate your mood.

Re: Ask HN: I am programmer, i wan't to die, what can i do?

#22
Suicide is stupid. It's not a solution to anything. Don't do it.

Focus on things you enjoy in life. If you're feeling lonely, make an effort to spend time with the friends and family you do have, and let them know how much they mean to you. Also seek out ways of meeting new people that share an interest with you even if it's uncomfortable and you're pessimistic about the outcome (i.e. going to meetups), just make sure to go in with the attitude of "It may be unlikely but I hope I meet someone I get along with here." and not "This is a waste of time."

You're not a bad person, you're not worthless, and your life won't always be shit. If you make the mistake of suicide, then you'll never enjoy all the good things that will happen to you over the next 40, 60 or 80 years. And that's a lot of good shit.

Re: Ask HN: I am programmer, i wan't to die, what can i do?

#26
Purchase nitrogen gas. Breathe that in instead of Oxygen. It looks like a peaceful way to go. http://lostallhope.com/suicide-methods/plastic-bag-gas

That said, life has a lot going for it. There are always cool things to do, people to meet, laughs to be had, love to be given etc... Failing that, go browse lolcats for a while.

Also, this may help: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0zBoD_ojxFA, or possibly this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XlgQxK-HBGk both of which help perk me up.

Also, consider doing something a little crazy. I'm sure your bucket list isn't blank. Pick something outrageous and do it. Then repeat. Death comes soon enough.

Re: Ask HN: I am programmer, i wan't to die, what can i do?

#27

As someone who is finally starting to get out of being depressed don't do it. The important thing here is to tell yourself it will get better. There are 2 things that really helped me. 1. Is changing your perspective. You don't care about life anymore? What an absolutely fantastic opportunity to break every single societal norm and do the things you've always dreamed of doing but were too scared to. Go skydiving, get…

Weirdly, sunshine may contribute to suicidal behaviour. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21821241

Re: Ask HN: I am programmer, i wan't to die, what can i do?

#28

Earlier quoted context omitted.

This is such a lie.

For situational depression it can. Clinical depression is an entire other beats, but regular exercise increases the levels of serotonin in your brain and releases more endorphins that elevate your mood.

There are a number of negative studies recently that show exercise doesn't help depression.

It's probably not going to hurt, especially if there's some social stuff built in.

Re: Ask HN: I am programmer, i wan't to die, what can i do?

#29
Please seek help! Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Whatever is causing you problems can be worked out!

Our family recently lost a member to suicide, I am confident that there are people who love you and would be devastated to lose you. My wife is a therapist, if there is something I can do to help in leading you in the right direction please tell me, I will gladly do it.

Please don't go through with this. What can we do to help?

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