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Re: Thank you HN, sorry HN

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I think this is a fine place for these issues now, as they're important to the community and the reaction has been positive. It will help drive awareness and encourage others to seek help. Unless of course he successfully creates a help net work, then it might be time to fork off to there :)

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Re: Thank you HN, sorry HN

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Giving up is easy, Continuing is Hard, is what most people think, but though the first part is true, Continuing in face of mounting odds is easy, if you just follow a good health regime, and keep yourself surrounded by people you can talk to and be with at ease.

Every life is worth living, you just need to ask for help at the right place, and people will help you see how important your life is.

Yes, their can be a separate tag SAVE@HN for threads from HN users in distress, If it even helps save 1 life, it would be damn worth it!

Re: Thank you HN, sorry HN

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"I would love to give something back to you but I am not sure what that should be." I would worry about creating an obligation that would require you to have anxiety and other issues by not being able to fulfill the obligation. While it's nice and might make you feel good to give back it's hard to believe that it wouldn't be better to simply try to get yourself stronger without the obligation of doing for others. For…

Serving others is one of the best ways to get one's mind off oneself and combat depression. I would actually exhort you to commit to doing some kind of service / help for someone else. Start small. Thank you for sharing your story.

Re: Thank you HN, sorry HN

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I think this is a fine place for these issues now, as they're important to the community and the reaction has been positive. It will help drive awareness and encourage others to seek help. Unless of course he successfully creates a help net work, then it might be time to fork off to there :)

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Although it sounds like you are joking, I just want to note that this can be quite a dangerous approach. Depression isn't just "very sad, needs help to cheer up". Depression is a neurochemical problem possibly caused by or exacerbated by environmental effects. Amateur psychology and "the power of positive thinking" are the equivalent of homeopathy. They work for some, but not reliably better than the placebo effect.

Depressed people need head doctors in much the same way that physically injured people need body doctors. For mild cases "walk it off" might work (in both head- and body- problems), but depression is more like a broken bone than it is like a mildly sprained ankle.

Re: Thank you HN, sorry HN

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Focus on getting better right now. You have your life in front of you and once you beat this you will have ample opportunity to pay back to the larger community. Please accept that you don't own anyone anything right now and the best you can do it focus on what you need to get better. Its ok to feel the kindness of others when you are in need.

Also, thanks for being so open. Continuing that openness and building a support group for yourself through that is something which helped me through a similar situation.

Re: Thank you HN, sorry HN

#30
A thank you letter is not homework, and has no due date. If you feel like you have to reply to every body remember that you are not on a schedule. Take your time. You are the one in need of help.
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