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Seriously? My gf of 6 years and I do all of those things. Instinctively I guess.
Let us know if it's still instinctive after 15 years. I'm not saying every relationship becomes routine/boring/sour/whatever, but often the sorts of things listed in the article slowly disappear from a relationship because of outside stresses. And those little things are important... EDIT: That first line seems really bitter, and it's not meant to be. I've been married for 12 years, and we've together for nearly 20.…
Currently at 12 years here and all still instinctive.