TOTP can be used today to authenticate a couple to each other over an untrusted medium. It’s rather high friction; you have to set it up in advance, and then read a six digit number over the phone. And I am not sure that it mitigates the threats… in this situation, I suspect it wouldn’t. It could even make the situation worse if the daughter is genuinely in trouble but can’t access the authenticator. But I can’t thin…
A confirmation phrase and a poison pill phrase, don't overcomplicate it. This can be generated, shared and changed easily and with no tech.
He says it “feels like 007 stuff.” “AI will never trick me!”
We also have a duress code word, listed in the notes of that KeePass(ium) entry with the TOTP.