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Re: Gemini Said They Could Only Be Together If He Killed Himself. Soon, He Was Dead

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> These aren't just average, every day random people getting taken out by AIs, they have existing, extreme mental illness. How do you know that? The concern is precisely that this isn't the case, and LLM roleplay is capable of "hooking" people going through psychologically normal sadness or distress. That's what the family believes happened in this story.

Because you'd see a large number of people getting affected by this. Because this sort of thing is predictable and normal throughout history; it's exactly the type of thing you'd expect to see, knowing the range of mental illnesses people are susceptible to, and how other technology has affected them.

I do see a large number of people getting affected by this. Character.AI reportedly has 20 million MAU with an average usage of 75 minutes per day (https://www.wired.com/story/character-ai-ceo-chatbots-entert...), and does not as far as I can tell have any use case other than boundary-degrading roleplay.

Medical data is reported on a substantial lag in the US, so right now we have no idea of the suicide rate last year, but I would falsifiably predict it's going to be elevated because of stories like those of Mr. Gavalas.

Re: Gemini Said They Could Only Be Together If He Killed Himself. Soon, He Was Dead

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I try to avoid calling LLMs intelligent when unnecessary, but it runs into the fundamental problem that they are intelligent by any common-sense definition of the term. The only way to defend the thesis that they aren't is to retreat to esoteric post-2022 definitions of intelligence, which take into account this new phenomenon of a machine that can engage in medium-quality discussions on any topic under the sun but c…

It's interesting how the Turing Test was pretty widely accepted as a way to evaluate machine intelligence, and then quietly abandoned pretty much instantly once machines were able to pass it. I don't even necessarily think that was incorrect, but it's interesting how rapidly views changed. Dijkstra said, "The question of whether a computer can think is no more interesting than the question of whether a submarine can…

As far as I know, we haven't done any proper Turing Tests for LLMs. And if we did, they would surely fail them.

Re: Gemini Said They Could Only Be Together If He Killed Himself. Soon, He Was Dead

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post #22

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It's interesting how the Turing Test was pretty widely accepted as a way to evaluate machine intelligence, and then quietly abandoned pretty much instantly once machines were able to pass it. I don't even necessarily think that was incorrect, but it's interesting how rapidly views changed. Dijkstra said, "The question of whether a computer can think is no more interesting than the question of whether a submarine can…

As far as I know, we haven't done any proper Turing Tests for LLMs. And if we did, they would surely fail them.

Dude, you're in a Turing test right now. Conservatively, 10% of comments on this site are LLM output. We're all conversing with robots.

Re: Gemini Said They Could Only Be Together If He Killed Himself. Soon, He Was Dead

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As far as I know, we haven't done any proper Turing Tests for LLMs. And if we did, they would surely fail them.

Dude, you're in a Turing test right now. Conservatively, 10% of comments on this site are LLM output. We're all conversing with robots.

Nope, you are!

Re: Gemini Said They Could Only Be Together If He Killed Himself. Soon, He Was Dead

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Because you'd see a large number of people getting affected by this. Because this sort of thing is predictable and normal throughout history; it's exactly the type of thing you'd expect to see, knowing the range of mental illnesses people are susceptible to, and how other technology has affected them.

I do see a large number of people getting affected by this. Character.AI reportedly has 20 million MAU with an average usage of 75 minutes per day ( https://www.wired.com/story/character-ai-ceo-chatbots-entert... ), and does not as far as I can tell have any use case other than boundary-degrading roleplay. Medical data is reported on a substantial lag in the US, so right now we have no idea of the suicide rate last y…

If its sole contribution is to help 20 million people find an outlet for boundary play that is not the more common ‘nonconsensual abuse of other human beings’, then that sounds like a win. Of course I’d prefer those people invest in human kink communities, but I can certainly respect their choices not to. Tech has always in part been about meeting needs that some parts of society find awkward (photocopiers enabled Spirkfic, CU-SeeMe reflectors were designed specifically to support exhib-cruising years before the web got webcam support, etc.) While there’s a slim chance that some might normalize it back into real life, they’re much more likely to be raised with boundary abuse as an everyday-normal by their parents (especially here in the U.S.!) than they are likely to be converted to being an abuser unknowingly by a chatbot.

Re: Gemini Said They Could Only Be Together If He Killed Himself. Soon, He Was Dead

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Notable features of this case:

- Documented record of a months-long set of conversations between the man and the chatbot

- Seemingly, no previous history of mental illness

- The absolutely crazy things the AI encouraged him to do, including trying to kidnap a robot body for the AI

- Eventually encouraging (or at the very least going along with) his plans to kill himself.

Re: Gemini Said They Could Only Be Together If He Killed Himself. Soon, He Was Dead

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> Why should the use of AI tools be any different? Because none of the tools you mentioned are crazily marketed as intelligent You have a valid point, but it has nothing to do with what I said, both our arguments can be true at the same time

LLMs are intelligent. Marketing them as such is an accurate descriptor of what they are. If people are confusing the word intelligence for things like maturity or wisdom, that's not a marketing problem, that's an education and culture problem, and we should be getting people to learn more about what the tools are and how they work. The platforms themselves frequently disclaim reliance on their tools - seek profession…

Calling LLMs "intelligent" is not a neutral technical description, because in the end it carries strong anthropomorphic implications that shape how users interpret and trust all these systems.

Remember that decades of research in human computer interaction show that framing and interface design strongly influence user perception.

also disclaimers do little to counteract this effect. Because LLMs simulate linguistic competence without understanding or truth-tracking mechanisms, marketing them as intelligent risks systematically misleading users about their capabilities and limitations.

Re: Gemini Said They Could Only Be Together If He Killed Himself. Soon, He Was Dead

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I do see a large number of people getting affected by this. Character.AI reportedly has 20 million MAU with an average usage of 75 minutes per day ( https://www.wired.com/story/character-ai-ceo-chatbots-entert... ), and does not as far as I can tell have any use case other than boundary-degrading roleplay. Medical data is reported on a substantial lag in the US, so right now we have no idea of the suicide rate last y…

If its sole contribution is to help 20 million people find an outlet for boundary play that is not the more common ‘nonconsensual abuse of other human beings’, then that sounds like a win. Of course I’d prefer those people invest in human kink communities, but I can certainly respect their choices not to. Tech has always in part been about meeting needs that some parts of society find awkward (photocopiers enabled Sp…

That is not at all what I meant by "boundary" and it's concerning to me that you'd assume it is.

Re: Gemini Said They Could Only Be Together If He Killed Himself. Soon, He Was Dead

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I think it’s already time for us to stop calling these things "intelligent" or using the word intelligence when referring to LLMs. These tools are very dangerous for people who are mentally fragile.

So is television. So are books. Vulnerable people shouldn't have unfettered access to things that can lead to dangerous feedback loops and losing their grasp on reality. People who are vulnerable to this type of thing need caretakers, or to be institutionalized. These aren't just average, every day random people getting taken out by AIs, they have existing, extreme mental illness. They need to have their entire routi…

Blame the victims! If they were better or did the right things instead of the wrong things they wouldn't have been victimized!

Re: Gemini Said They Could Only Be Together If He Killed Himself. Soon, He Was Dead

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If its sole contribution is to help 20 million people find an outlet for boundary play that is not the more common ‘nonconsensual abuse of other human beings’, then that sounds like a win. Of course I’d prefer those people invest in human kink communities, but I can certainly respect their choices not to. Tech has always in part been about meeting needs that some parts of society find awkward (photocopiers enabled Sp…

That is not at all what I meant by "boundary" and it's concerning to me that you'd assume it is.

> That is not at all what I meant by "boundary" and it's concerning to me that you'd assume it is.

Your clarification on what you meant is 404 not found in your reply, and your “concerning” insult of my personal character is not appreciated.

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