This all meant that as databases like Postgres keep adding cool new features they mostly go unused because an ORM just doesn’t let you pierce that layer of abstraction except dropping to pure SQL which is typically seen as a code smell and an annoyance to everyone involved.
So on the one hand I love that Postgres is getting amazing new features, not to mention all the cool extensions. On the other hand I and I suspect many others are essentially locked out of them and since most ORMa try to serve multiple databases they typically only include the most common denominator features. As I get more experienced I both see why RDBMS is the right choice most times AND see the appeal of an object store instead of a row store.