"Talented people with a lot of experience have strong opinions." i hear this often. and i've worked with some people like that, many of whom i admire (in some ways). yet i am not at all opinionated (as far as i can tell). when people ask me for advice, i often find it very hard to guide them because there are so many options, and what will work best seems to depend so much on non-technical factors. and i am not sure…
"The fundamental cause of the trouble is that in the modern world the stupid are cocksure while the intelligent are full of doubt." - Bertrand Russell
as j_baker says, it seems like it's just one of those "life is complicated" things...