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Americans are choosing to be alone, but we should reverse that

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Re: Americans are choosing to be alone, but we should reverse that

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A few thoughts: 1. The internet means we have many forms of entertainment available without needing to go anywhere. 2. Many of those are social activities, even though we are physically alone. This is completely different from being totally isolated (as implied by the article). 3. The declining economic situation affects the ability of people to pursue leisure activities that would involve actually going somewhere th…

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Re: Americans are choosing to be alone, but we should reverse that

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post #11

A few thoughts: 1. The internet means we have many forms of entertainment available without needing to go anywhere. 2. Many of those are social activities, even though we are physically alone. This is completely different from being totally isolated (as implied by the article). 3. The declining economic situation affects the ability of people to pursue leisure activities that would involve actually going somewhere th…

"The bad economy means you can't meet people in real life. But soon, everyone will buy VR goggles and hang out on rented servers!"

Am I mis-understanding something here? Just go on a hike, walking is free.

Re: Americans are choosing to be alone, but we should reverse that

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the article doesn't seem attribute the desire to be alone to anything, other than saying that it got a lot more common during the pandemic, but I can say why I prefer to be alone: no judgement, no one makes fun of me, no one takes advantage of me, and no one steals from me. the one and only bad thing for me is that being lonely sucks. I am not lonely, but I probably will be in a decade's time. being alone adds up ove…

If you always have problems with other people, other people aren't the problem

Re: Americans are choosing to be alone, but we should reverse that

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Robert Putnam already explained why this is happening but since it's not an acceptable answer, we march on and pretend to be mystified.

Can you elaborate on what they said?

I assume he's referring to the book Bowling Alone, an excellent read even if its thesis is a bit dated.

Re: Americans are choosing to be alone, but we should reverse that

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Robert Putnam already explained why this is happening but since it's not an acceptable answer, we march on and pretend to be mystified.

People don't need each other any more. Turns out need was half of what brought us together. What is there to do, really?

Re: Americans are choosing to be alone, but we should reverse that

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post #11

A few thoughts: 1. The internet means we have many forms of entertainment available without needing to go anywhere. 2. Many of those are social activities, even though we are physically alone. This is completely different from being totally isolated (as implied by the article). 3. The declining economic situation affects the ability of people to pursue leisure activities that would involve actually going somewhere th…

That is a pretty nightmarish scenario you're predicting, there, was that sarcasm?

Re: Americans are choosing to be alone, but we should reverse that

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

Presumably https://www.tesd.net/cms/lib/PA01001259/Centricity/Domain/11...

Ironic given it’s from 1995. I assume the WaPo article imagines that was a golden age

Well Putnam's book suggested that it was a longstanding trend that just kept getting worse, so each decade would be a golden age compared to what came later.

Re: Americans are choosing to be alone, but we should reverse that

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post #11

A few thoughts: 1. The internet means we have many forms of entertainment available without needing to go anywhere. 2. Many of those are social activities, even though we are physically alone. This is completely different from being totally isolated (as implied by the article). 3. The declining economic situation affects the ability of people to pursue leisure activities that would involve actually going somewhere th…

"The bad economy means you can't meet people in real life. But soon, everyone will buy VR goggles and hang out on rented servers!" Am I mis-understanding something here? Just go on a hike, walking is free.

> Just go on a hike, walking is free.

If the webshits on here could work out a way to monetize hiking, they will.

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