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Re: Ask HN: How to regain focus when you feel overwhelmed?

#21
I'm naturally a pretty anxious person. I can't give you business advice but I can give you advice on stress.

I like to do things that help me control my anxiety. There are two relatively simple things you can do that will noticeably relax you. Sauna use and wim hof breathing. Going to the sauna regularly (I started 1/week but now do 5/week) relaxes me and triggers heat shock proteins that reduce depression[1]. Wim hof breathing centers me and and significantly reduces my anxiety.

I actually like to do 4 things all together; sauna, cold showers, exercise, and wim hof breathing exercises. When I do all 4 my stress is almost non existent. Things can bother me-- I'm not super human-- but I'm able to handle stress much more effectively to the point that it's almost never an issue. If you are willing to, you can try doing it all.

These won't solve all your problems. They are simply tools to use. Ultimately you can't control the world, but you can control how you respond to it.

[1]https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/sciadv.1603014\*

Re: Ask HN: How to regain focus when you feel overwhelmed?

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I'm naturally a pretty anxious person. I can't give you business advice but I can give you advice on stress. I like to do things that help me control my anxiety. There are two relatively simple things you can do that will noticeably relax you. Sauna use and wim hof breathing. Going to the sauna regularly (I started 1/week but now do 5/week) relaxes me and triggers heat shock proteins that reduce depression[1]. Wim ho…

Thanks a lot! Will give at shot. Really appreciate the repsonses on hackernews. Got a lot of hints how to move forward.

Re: Ask HN: How to regain focus when you feel overwhelmed?

#24
I am a coach for engineers who have challenges, exactly like this

I know the pain of not sleeping well due to concerns I have felt how this stress zaps away all the vital energy

I would appreciate if you accept to have a 30 mins call, where I can listen to you and look together for a solution

free of charge and geared only to engineers

Daniel

Re: Ask HN: How to regain focus when you feel overwhelmed?

#25

Sounds like you need a vacation.

The funny part is, that it kind of tend to get worse during vacations. Not a psychologist, but guess when I try to work hard and focused, all the "pending" stuff is suppressed. On vacations in comes, I'm more relaxed, and it comes out.

Re: Ask HN: How to regain focus when you feel overwhelmed?

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Are you working on this project alone or do you have a partner or assistant?

That is also a point. I wanted to onboard people or make it bigger. But wanted to cash out and resolve any tax liabilities first. Both didn't work so far. So I'm on my own.

Sorry to hear that - I hope you can find a way to bring someone on board - even if just a temp to bash out some of the 'easy but long' work that can free you up for the important stuff. Or equally just free you up to relax.

Hang in there, things will get better, you are already achieving more than most people can.

Re: Ask HN: How to regain focus when you feel overwhelmed?

#27
Looks like you're trying to get all of these done at the same time. Choose one task that you feel like working on the most.

Now keep taking baby-steps to gradually build momentum.

Try not to worry about the completion. keep switching tasks whenever you feel overwhelmed.

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