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Building friend catchers

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Re: Building friend catchers

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Yeah righto mate, you started browsing the web when you were 3?

Why is that weird? I recall starting videogames around that time, and if the internet had been easier to access I probably would have been on there as well.

Most 3 year olds can't read.

Re: Building friend catchers

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post #20

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Why is that weird? I recall starting videogames around that time, and if the internet had been easier to access I probably would have been on there as well.

Most 3 year olds can't read.

The statement was ", when I was 3 or 4 years old". I took that to mean it was closer to four, which is not that weird of an age to be able to read. Or at least I thought so, until I looked it up. I guess it is pretty unusual.

Re: Building friend catchers

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I don't think I've ever met someone online and later met them in person. Except for dating sites.

It seems more difficult to make friends the older I get. I think at least part of it is that everyone is so busy.

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post #20

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Why is that weird? I recall starting videogames around that time, and if the internet had been easier to access I probably would have been on there as well.

Most 3 year olds can't read.

When I was 4 years old I was playing mac games on Mac OS 7 I think..

Re: Building friend catchers

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I've been online forever as MikeWarot or KA9DGX, depending on username requirements. It has served me well for finding stuff I found interesting in the past. Now that I've met another Mike Warot, who live(d?) in London, via the web, that might not be quite as useful as it was in the past.

Re: Building friend catchers

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The new friend catchers are all on Discord.

Pretty hard to find friends on discord, join a server that's too popular and it's like a twitch stream. Join one too small and no one talks or quickly runs out of topics.

The best ones might be activity centred discord channels, like translating mangas. But, at that point, discord isn't the friend catcher anyway.

Re: Building friend catchers

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I don't think I've ever met someone online and later met them in person. Except for dating sites. It seems more difficult to make friends the older I get. I think at least part of it is that everyone is so busy.

> More difficult to make friends…

For me, it’s intolerance. I have a low threshold for bullshit, the (intentionally?) inarticulate, and stubbornness in conversation.

I’ve kept some friends. We’ve physically separated, but we stay in touch and meet in person. Making new ones is indeed challenging.

Re: Building friend catchers

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Niche activities or are always the best friend catchers. As it automatically filters out anyone not interested.

Anyone who does chat would immediately have a common interest.

Because it's niche, there tends to be original or unique ideas, making connection easier.

That being said, you can't hide your identity and sing it loud and proud to any and everyone. My blog is anonymous so there's no friend catcher effect.

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