Rust does not have to be this hard. Most of the pain here come from the unholy trifactor: combining async, lifetimes and dynamic dispatch with trait object closures; which is indeed very awkward in practice. Async support is incredibly half-baked. It was released as an MVP, but that MVP has not improved notably in almost three years. There are lots of ideas, some progress on the fundamental language features required…
Yes. I've been complaining about async contamination for some time. I'm writing heavily threaded code, with threads running at different priorities, and libraries which want async get in the way.
If you look at the poster's example, the "Arc" version is very close to the Go version. And if it didn't use "async", it would be even closer.
Go's green threads simplify things. It's real concurrency; you can block. But there are times when you have to lock.
As I've said before, if you're writing webcrap, use Go. The libraries for web-related stuff are stable and well-exercised, since Google uses them internally.