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I spoke up about Rivian’s toxic bro culture and got fired

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Re: I spoke up about Rivian’s toxic bro culture and got fired

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First question I would have is why did they hire a woman if they didn't want her to succeed? Just to marginalize her? There are not many details in the article so we can only guess.

Performative inclusion. — Inclusion: A seat at the table. Equity: When you speak at the table, others listen.

You mean equality.

Re: I spoke up about Rivian’s toxic bro culture and got fired

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Anything is possible. The difference between us is that you are starting with the arguably paranoid assumption that "the patriarchy" is the root of the problem and I'm starting with the Occam's razor assumption they simply didn't like her.

Yes, and I have a piece of evidence: the article, and you are just making stuff up.

I was talking about they guy's wife at the sporting goods store. Regarding the article, I offered my opinion. I made nothing up.

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The article by itself is not evidence.

No, of course not, she's making it all up. /s

Maybe she is, maybe she isn’t. Maybe she earnestly believes it but is misconstruing what actually happened. We don’t know. But her account is just that: one account, which is intrinsically subjective and biased. When verifying the validity of an account, you don’t get the hold up the account itself as evidence. That would be begging the question.

Re: I spoke up about Rivian’s toxic bro culture and got fired

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Performative inclusion. — Inclusion: A seat at the table. Equity: When you speak at the table, others listen.

You mean equality.

In this case, “equity” is the term I was after. Equality means treated the same as everyone else. Equity means participation, with the same roots as when we talk about common stock being “equity.”

If management excluded everyone in sales from meetings regardless of gender, the author might have equality but not equity.

Whereas if management ignored everyone in sales but listened to the author, the author would have equity without equality.

Re: I spoke up about Rivian’s toxic bro culture and got fired

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VP of sales and marketing of a 54B valuation company tends to have a bit more scrutiny so this doesn't really seem apples to apples. That aside, perhaps they didn't like her and it had nothing to do with gender?

> almost immediately experienced a toxic bro culture

she said that

Re: I spoke up about Rivian’s toxic bro culture and got fired

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No, of course not, she's making it all up. /s

Maybe she is, maybe she isn’t. Maybe she earnestly believes it but is misconstruing what actually happened. We don’t know. But her account is just that: one account, which is intrinsically subjective and biased. When verifying the validity of an account, you don’t get the hold up the account itself as evidence. That would be begging the question.

This is pretty typical, if a woman writes up an account about what happened to her at her workplace there will be all kinds of characters trying to discredit her.

The golden rule is: unless you have evidence to the contrary at least give her the benefit of the doubt, the vast majority of these cases are bad enough without people trying to muddy the waters with a 'both sides' approach. No executive in their right mind commits career suicide by relating such an account if it isn't true, and someone who managed to climb to the top of an automaker can be assumed to be in their right mind.

Re: I spoke up about Rivian’s toxic bro culture and got fired

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You mean equality.

In this case, “equity” is the term I was after. Equality means treated the same as everyone else. Equity means participation, with the same roots as when we talk about common stock being “equity.” If management excluded everyone in sales from meetings regardless of gender, the author might have equality but not equity. Whereas if management ignored everyone in sales but listened to the author, the author would have e…

That's not how the terms have been used in the past decade. "Equality" has always meant a level playing field (everyone judged based on what they bring to the table), whereas "equity" in present-day discourse means everyone is literally treated the same regardless of merit.

If you want people to listen to your ideas at the table and accept or reject them based on merit, that's equality. Everyone starts off from an equal standing.

If you want your one vote regardless of what people think or how grand or stupid your ideas are, that's equity. Among N people you always get 1/Nth the attention, reward, impact, etc.

Re: I spoke up about Rivian’s toxic bro culture and got fired

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Maybe she is, maybe she isn’t. Maybe she earnestly believes it but is misconstruing what actually happened. We don’t know. But her account is just that: one account, which is intrinsically subjective and biased. When verifying the validity of an account, you don’t get the hold up the account itself as evidence. That would be begging the question.

This is pretty typical, if a woman writes up an account about what happened to her at her workplace there will be all kinds of characters trying to discredit her. The golden rule is: unless you have evidence to the contrary at least give her the benefit of the doubt, the vast majority of these cases are bad enough without people trying to muddy the waters with a 'both sides' approach. No executive in their right mind…

Did I try to discredit her? I did not.

Re: I spoke up about Rivian’s toxic bro culture and got fired

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This is pretty typical, if a woman writes up an account about what happened to her at her workplace there will be all kinds of characters trying to discredit her. The golden rule is: unless you have evidence to the contrary at least give her the benefit of the doubt, the vast majority of these cases are bad enough without people trying to muddy the waters with a 'both sides' approach. No executive in their right mind…

Did I try to discredit her? I did not.

Yes, you actually did and that you do not realize that you did is cause for concern.
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