Ugh. Yes. Not meaning to be crude here and I’m incredibly sympathetic to the men I date, but as a woman in her late 30s it’s hard to find a man my age who doesn’t have problems getting / keeping it up. Most of them link back to antidepressant use. What about modern society drives the need for such widespread use of antidepressants? Is that something we should be willing to give up? It hasn’t always been this way, has…
GPs have very limited amounts of time for individual patients. Therapists, counsellors and psychiatrists are expensive and have mixed results, and require a significant time investment from the patient and the professional. It may be a long time before any kind of talk therapy has results. For many people who go into a doctor's office complaining of depression symptoms, it will go away within a reasonable timeframe. In many countries, there are waiting lists for any kind of further treatment.
The whole situation adds up to handing out SSRIs as a first line treatment when anyone comes to a GP reporting depressive symptoms; it's cheap, it buys time, it gives the patient a feeling that they're doing something to work on their issue, and gives them time to sign up for further support and get through their waiting list. As far as the GP knows, in most cases, side effects are rare. For many people coming in with mild depressive symptoms, there is some temporary life factor that will go away within the first course of treatment, and with it the symptoms, and that is a "success" for the SSRI stats.
Of course, anyone who's been on SSRIs of various types for any longer length of time knows that's bullshit, and they're quite serious substances with prolonged side effects and withdrawals. I really hope the situation changes.