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My experience of losing a friend to heroin (2020)

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Re: My experience of losing a friend to heroin (2020)

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Would providing free and clean heroin in safe, monitored sites be a solution? Starve the black market of clients, give people support and safety when they need it, as well as the time required to get their life back together enough to take a leap.

I imagine it would help with the fentanyl issue. I don't think that anyone would buy fentanyl if they had access to known real heroin that wasn't expensive.

I wish this was true. Fentanyl has demand, both all on its own, and cut into other substances for the extra kick. I'm reluctantly convinced that a free clinic should have it on the menu.

Re: My experience of losing a friend to heroin (2020)

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Would providing free and clean heroin in safe, monitored sites be a solution? Starve the black market of clients, give people support and safety when they need it, as well as the time required to get their life back together enough to take a leap.

Given what we have observed with alcohol, cannibis, and prescription drugs, I think it's safe I expect that decriminalization, legal suppliers, and free drugs would probably not reduce recreational use & abuse of opiates in America... If anything, I would expect usage to increase.

Don't get me wrong: I am absolutely in favor of decriminalization, as well as other radical changes in our society's relationships with drugs, mental health, and addiction. But it would be catastrophically naive to suggest that legalized/decriminalized opiates are some kind of panacea.

If heroin didn't exist, these people would probably plain old alcoholics. The damage caused by an alcoholic is pretty similar to the wake of a heroin addict... It's not identical, but the overlap in causes & effects of abuse is pretty similar between the two drugs.

Ultimately, the problem is that some people reach young adulthood without having developed a robust set of emotional coping mechanisms for handling the stresses of their lives. These folks are a LOT more likely to fall into the larger patterns of self-destructive behavior that drive them back toward drugs, over and over again.

Re: My experience of losing a friend to heroin (2020)

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

Decriminalizing use is the only sane solution; using and/or being addicted to a substance is not a crime, period.

I used to believe that — before I lived in a city that effectively decriminalized all drugs. The result has been a disaster. People on meth run around the streets at night causing chaos. Homeless people on heroin leave needles everywhere. People avoid transit and parks now because there is regularly someone losing his or her mind nearby. Long sentences aren’t the answer of course. But I do think that sending someone…

Of course you shouldn't only decriminalized, you must in parallel fund social services and clinics to help drug abusers. Else it's just useless

Re: My experience of losing a friend to heroin (2020)

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Good write up. The US is really grappling with diseases of despair, and heroin/fentanyl addition is on of the biggest ones impacting the wellbeing of our society. A massive slice of talent and raw human resource is just dying every year, but the solutions that have worked in other countries are just impossible to implement here due because the the methods that are known to work are politically dead on arrival.

I'm a strong proponent of the US taking the approach the Swiss took to combat their opiate epidemic in the late 80s and early 90s. Anyone that is addicted to drugs can get the drugs they want, they just have to already be addicted first, and accept the drugs in a safe environment. It would be extraordinarily expensive, but cases like Jacks are already costing us much more than just giving him drugs, keeping him alive, then having healthcare professionals be there at exactly the moment he decides he's had enough. The effect on new users would be profound as well: as all the current users naturally age out of wanting to use hard drugs, the majority of drug dealers (other users themselves), won't have the capability to introduce new people to hard drugs.

However, we seem to have this huge moral hang up in the US about giving addicts drugs, even though we know that will save lives and money by reducing crime and lowering overall healthcare costs. For all the money Jack's parents spent on rehab, and hours spent watching him, none of it could prevent them burying their son the day he got a bad bag of heroin. For a case like Jacks, only safe drugs and injection sites would keep him and the millions of people stable before they are ready to move on.

The US is just not prepared to do what it takes to solve the opiate epidemic, and it's so frustrating to what tens of thousands of people die while we aren't anywhere near getting our act together. It's a Vietnam war in OD deaths, every year, and the Sacklers just walked with no criminal liability. Unless we do something drastic to reach these people, the opiate crisis is never going to go away.

Re: My experience of losing a friend to heroin (2020)

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post #13

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Decriminalizing use is the only sane solution; using and/or being addicted to a substance is not a crime, period.

I used to believe that — before I lived in a city that effectively decriminalized all drugs. The result has been a disaster. People on meth run around the streets at night causing chaos. Homeless people on heroin leave needles everywhere. People avoid transit and parks now because there is regularly someone losing his or her mind nearby. Long sentences aren’t the answer of course. But I do think that sending someone…

I've never met somebody informed and for decriminalization that isn't aware that the first few years, perhaps even decades, especially when just in a small region and not an entire nation, are going to be a bit of a shitshow.

Things take time to get better, and as others have mentioned, most places that have decriminalized haven't exactly bolstered all other services that need to be around once decriminalization happens.

It's sort of like the amount of people who are pissed about how Chinese tourists act. Their nation has just recently entered a point in which they're able to be tourists. Americans have had decades to learn how to act and are often still shitty tourists. Things take time.

Re: My experience of losing a friend to heroin (2020)

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post #13

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Decriminalizing use is the only sane solution; using and/or being addicted to a substance is not a crime, period.

I used to believe that — before I lived in a city that effectively decriminalized all drugs. The result has been a disaster. People on meth run around the streets at night causing chaos. Homeless people on heroin leave needles everywhere. People avoid transit and parks now because there is regularly someone losing his or her mind nearby. Long sentences aren’t the answer of course. But I do think that sending someone…

So, to clarify, these people are not forcing you to do anything, but you want to force them to do something?

Re: My experience of losing a friend to heroin (2020)

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> I wish I had a happier note to end this on, but honestly, my biggest takeaway from the whole experience is that maybe some puzzles just can’t be solved. We can try to attribute Jack’s problems to intrinsic biological/psychological issues (social phobia, migraines, etc.) or to environmental causes (super high rate of heroin use and OD in the community), but both sides seem fundamentally lacking in explanatory power.…

I'm not sure you understand how good heroin feels. Nothing comes close, especially not Tennis or a wonderful community. I tried heroin once, and I regret it every day, because I am 100% positive that I will never again be as happy as I was that day. If I didn't have what is effectively a dream job I'm sure that I'd be a heroin addict.

I think he’s implying if he had that outlet, maybe heroin would have never been encountered.

Re: My experience of losing a friend to heroin (2020)

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My condolences to anyone who's lost a friend or relative to addiction - thanks to the human vultures who reap the rewards.

It's possible that by vigorously pursuing and prosecuting the people who can afford to purchase and disseminate hard narcotics - instead of the users and a pusher or two - most of the problem would dry up.

I'm not optimistic about that happening. The little guys are easier to catch, and caps are feathered. Meanwhile, the big guys have contacts and probably political connections.

Re: My experience of losing a friend to heroin (2020)

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Very well written piece. Makes me wonder if we will soon see a similar piece published but s/heroin/videogames.

This seems a little insensitive given the original is about a friend dying from drug overdose and video games aren't deadly.

Can I assume you've never had the privilege of knowing a hardcore gambling addict?

I'm not taking about weekend poker players, here... I mean people who've lost their wife, kids, house, and job to a gambling habit. They have zero savings, mountains of debt, and if you lend them $20 to get groceries, they'll go hungry after gambling it away?

Modern video games are designed by highly paid, PHd-level behavioral scientists to be as habit-forming as possible. If you're vulnerable to it, you're going to have the same kind of struggles getting away from video games as a heroin addict would from junk.

The lack of immediately lethal consequences is only part of the problem... Addicts can ruin their lives, and take their families and friends to the point of no return, even without the possibility of something as serious as an overdose.

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