Can someone with more knowledge of Nvidia GPU's please say how much the V100 costs ($5-10K?) compared with the $900 mac mini.
You would instead buy a used 1080 (no ti) for similar performance. The special thing about the V100 is that it's driver EULA allows data center usage. If you don't need that, there are other much cheaper options.
For much closer performance you should get a 2080ti, which should be roughly comparable in speed and have 11GB [edit: wrongly wrote 14GB before] of memory (against the 16GB for the V100). Price-wise you still save a lot of money, after quickly googling around, roughly $1200 vs. $15k-$20k.
But you still lose something, e.g. if you use half precision on V100 you get virtually double speed, if you do on a 1080 / 2080 you get... nothing because it's not supported.
(and more importantly for companies, you can actually use only V100-style stuff on servers [edit: as you mentioned already, although I'm not 100% sure it's just drivers that are the issue?])
[1] I've not used 1080 myself, but I've used 1080ti and V100 extensively, and the latter is about 30% faster. Hence my estimate for comparison with 1080