Could someone in the know inform me as to whether or not my knee jerk reaction of "couldn't this individual possibly contribute to the Tor project instead?" is warranted?
They are contributing to the Tor project by sending detailed vulnerability reports. As for demanding that they fix/upstream changes themselves, then yes, that's likely too big of an ask, as even these reports are a gift. Tor has paid employees. "PRs welcome, wontfix" is not acceptable for security vulnerabilities in a security product.
I generally chalk this up to leadership issues.