My first thought has always been to just make it mandatory, or at the very least opt-out instead of opt-in. I realize those are both very controversial, so I wonder why we don't have a monetary incentive. i.e. We will pay $1000 for every organ of yours we take to a person you nominate.
If you ask a lay person from any human culture how do you know when a person is dead I think you would get similar answers along the lines of: - no heartbeat - no breath - their body temperature falls to ambient temperature - blood pools on lower half of body - onset of decomposition - etc When organs are removed from a person for donation, none of those conditions apply. In order to accommodate this fact the concept…
They actually spend more time trying to revive a donor and doing everything they possibly can because of misconceptions like what you said above. She is quite certain that if anything, being a donor actually increases the likelihood of you being revived by medical staff, who would much rather revive you than have to deal with people telling them they didn't try hard enough.