If you suspect an order is fraud, don't go out and say to the criminal "hey, I declined your super suspicious order!". Instead, play dead. Pretend they got you. Tell them "thank you for your order", behaving exactly the same way as if it really was a successful order. The name of the game is to make things cost more for your enemies than they cost for you. Removing instant feedback is key. Instant feedback is great.…
Yeah I was just talking to an employee of a CC fraud prevention company and that was my thought: they proudly talk about how they can identify fraud and refuse the transaction, when my question was, why not just look like you're approving the order and then follow it right to the fraudster? Better to reliably catch the humans behind this and impose stringent legal penalties than allow them to keep guessing without a…
You can get disposable physical addresses as well.
It is part of why some companies flag a mailing address I use as a fraudulent order. I primarily use it to avoid handing out my RL address on domains that don't allow whois protection.