Earlier quoted context omitted.
It is happening because it works the way that is most useful to most people. The number of people who want to use bluetooth earbuds with a different microphone is line noise in the consumer market. Implementing special requirements is always inconvenient for users because no B2C wants to risk bad the-microphone-didn’t-work reviews, customer returns, and support tickets. Nevermind coordinating with arbitrary USB micro…
it happens because bluetooth profile for audio+microphone uses different codecs and has less bandwidth, due to being used for realtime communication. the bluetooth audio streaming profile enables more codecs, but only playback, and allows significantly higher latency that you wouldnt accept on a call
That latency is also a millstone. We can do much better, but the standard lags and implementations lag even more.