One of the trends that I can only hope continues is getting rid of this idea that home ownership (especially single family home ownership) is the American dream. I live in and own a detached single family home (was a compromise with my spouse) and to be honest, I hate it. I hate having to take care of the yard, to deal with unreliable tradespeople when things break, to deal with the huge expense of minor home repairs…
A Growing Problem in Real Estate: Too Many Too Big Houses
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#192One of the trends that I can only hope continues is getting rid of this idea that home ownership (especially single family home ownership) is the American dream. I live in and own a detached single family home (was a compromise with my spouse) and to be honest, I hate it. I hate having to take care of the yard, to deal with unreliable tradespeople when things break, to deal with the huge expense of minor home repairs…
Yet you'll almost always come out ahead financially, so not ridiculous at all. Real estate is a great way to build wealth, and owning your home comes with all sorts of financial advantages.
Also, you're paying that super. Nothing is free; it's a part of your rent. You may get lucky and have a responsive management company... or you may not, and that is likely tied pretty closely to how much your rent costs each month. It's not hard to get in tough with service people and, you know... you can always just learn how to fix things yourself.
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#193TBH, its great, especially when you compare what you can get for the same mortgage in the city, where even a 2 bedroom is considered too big. Anything over 2.5k sq feet in the city is either a triplex (and thereby 3x as expensive per sq foot), or a mansion that costs >$500/sq foot.
We get to have nice amenities like a hot tub, gym room, etc, and not feel like we have "too much" stuff because almost everything is actually used. It wouldn't work if we wanted to have kids of course, but we're pretty much all lgbt. The social group also has to be not only tight, but also already has good way of dealing with conflict.
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#194Earlier quoted context omitted.
> They are unlikely to have mortgaged it, as most lenders won't lend past retirement for obvious reasons You can't deny a loan due to age in the U.S. It's specifically forbidden by federal law.
you can deny a loan due to the applicant not being employed though, right?
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#195One of the trends that I can only hope continues is getting rid of this idea that home ownership (especially single family home ownership) is the American dream. I live in and own a detached single family home (was a compromise with my spouse) and to be honest, I hate it. I hate having to take care of the yard, to deal with unreliable tradespeople when things break, to deal with the huge expense of minor home repairs…
But on the flip side there is a huge feeling of satisfaction and pride when you accomplish certain tasks or home improvement projects. You've bettered the property you own and often have learned new skills. It also makes the beer taste even better when you're finally ready to relax.
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#196One of the trends that I can only hope continues is getting rid of this idea that home ownership (especially single family home ownership) is the American dream. I live in and own a detached single family home (was a compromise with my spouse) and to be honest, I hate it. I hate having to take care of the yard, to deal with unreliable tradespeople when things break, to deal with the huge expense of minor home repairs…
Am I the only one who has always seen renting as a temporary arrangement only? If you don't own something, somewhere, doesn't that mean the same as being homeless? Not trying to offend anyone. Genuinely wondering, are there people who really don't want to own real estate ever in their lives?
I'll give an analogy: my dad used to hoard toilet paper, preferring to "own" large stockpiles of it rather than just get it as necessary from the store. Why? Because he grew up in WW2, in an occupied country, and had to shit in the river and wipe his butt with stones. This doesn't even compute for my American-born generation: to us, the supermarket is always there, and if you need toilet paper you go buy it.
Similarly, if you can assume that another rental will always be there when you need it, there's no need to own. And in dense urban areas with lots of landlords, that's a pretty valid assumption. Somebody refuses to rent to you (which has happened), just rent from somebody else. I'd rather own financial assets like stock - which I can take with me anywhere, and which usually have a much greater monopoly position than the landlord - and then use the income thrown off by them to rent accommodation.
Would I be fucked if there were a financial crisis or breakdown in social order? Yes. But if I were to own a typical 1/4 acre suburban detached home, I'd still be fucked - because you're still renting water & sewer access from the city, electricity from the utility, Internet from Comcast, food from the grocery store, etc, not to mention that your ownership only extends to your ability to pay the bank monthly. If you want to actually be secure & independent, you not only need your own land with a sturdily-built home, you also need solar panels, well water, a septic system, and obscurity. And you need to own it free & clear with no debts.
A similar logic applies to people who take Uber instead of owning a car, or who pay monthly for a SaaS instead of buying software outright, or who get food delivered rather than owning cookware and cooking themselves. As long as they can count on the service always being available, it works.
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#197Earlier quoted context omitted.
Knock $10-20k off the price and put that towards hiring people to clean it. Bundle the house sale with cleaning services for a few years or something. The amount of people willing to deal with it will grow as the price falls, but that's not newsworthy. That's the uncomfortable truth for people wanting to sell.
There's still energy costs wasted on heating and cooling 4x more space than you need.
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#198Well the solution is communal living in these large homes. I'm doing just such a thing with extended family and children and its quite nice. I get not everyone loves being around their family, so its not for everyone, but it makes things far more affordable, and the house you can get by pooling money together can be quite amazing compared to what you can get by splitting the pot. There are fewer people wanting to buy…
Almost all old mansions, especially in Europe used to be owned by the aristocracy, and they lived their with the entire (extended) family and servants.
A 700m2 house is terrible to live in the place is inhabited by 2 people. 10 or 15 on the other hand, make living in such a home a completely different experience.
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#199This is not only "first world problems", but 1% first world problems. Well, maybe 5%: given > For their retirement in a suburb of Asheville, N.C., Ben and Valentina Bethell spent about $3.5 million in 2009 to build their dream home: a roughly 7,500-square-foot, European-style house with a commanding view of the Blue Ridge Mountains. Put $3.5m into https://dqydj.com/net-worth-percentile-calculator-united-sta... and yo…
> They are unlikely to have mortgaged it, as most lenders won't lend past retirement for obvious reasons You can't deny a loan due to age in the U.S. It's specifically forbidden by federal law.
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#200One of the trends that I can only hope continues is getting rid of this idea that home ownership (especially single family home ownership) is the American dream. I live in and own a detached single family home (was a compromise with my spouse) and to be honest, I hate it. I hate having to take care of the yard, to deal with unreliable tradespeople when things break, to deal with the huge expense of minor home repairs…
Luckily, growing up, my father made sure I could do just about every possible home repair. I may not do them all now; but, I can and I know enough to avoid being ripped off.