So, let's say my system is currently backed by MySQL or PostgreSQL, and that is not fungible. How would one move that data into RAM, including writes? And, how would one maintain some level of safety in the event of a crash? i.e. I don't really care if I lose X amount of time worth of data (say, five minutes), but I do care that when I reboot the system, the database comes back from disk into RAM in a consistent stat…
For the thing you described, you probably also want synchronous_commit=off. That means you might lose some commits in the case of a crash, but you won't get data corruption from it, and writes will be much faster.