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Re: HackerSurfing: Free Housing and Food for Engineers Visiting SF

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This should be done in a bigger way, with founders and startuppers offering their couch like people do in www.couchsurfing.com... It would be more than awesome

There used to be Startup Stay [ ] Not sure what happened to it. http://venturebeat.com/2012/08/09/startup-stay-lets-you-cras...

See Horizon (my startup): http://www.horizonapp.co/product-hunt

Similar to startupstay in some regards, but quite different as well: http://www.horizonapp.co/blog/horizon-approach-hospitality-e...

Re: HackerSurfing: Free Housing and Food for Engineers Visiting SF

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I really hope that some day there is an all female or at least half female hacker house. I really like the idea of a hacker house and love being around smart tech people but some guys don't know how to act around women (I'm sorry but there are guys like that out there and many of them are hackers). It is even worse if you are one of the only single woman in a close community. I've heard from male friends that live in…

Or a mixed-race house. Let's be the melting pot America was supposed to be.

Re: HackerSurfing: Free Housing and Food for Engineers Visiting SF

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The guy with the laptop in the tub is making me uncomfortable on several levels.

That has to be a planned/posed image. There's no way one could focus so intently while hot water bubbles around you..

He might just be reading.

Re: HackerSurfing: Free Housing and Food for Engineers Visiting SF

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>get used to being treated the same way. Can you elaborate on this? IMHO women should be treated equally when it makes moral sense. I.e. women's bathrooms need to be larger because of the various things they need to do in there, not just societal norm things but things like changing tampons, pads. The menstrual cycle also affects productivity and is essentially a reoccurring medical issue that needs regular treatment…

I believe that we could also write papers about how average the woman reacts to men that don't fit societal stereotypes. This is not a women's issue at all and I don't see the relevance of it in this discussion. The whole point is the original claim that men don't know how to act around women, as if there was some special way of dealing with women that makes them inherently different from men in a way that could go a…

The relevance is that men currently dominate the hackerspace "scene". How men react to women that don't fit societal norms would tend to dictate how women in tech are going to be treated.

>The whole point is the original claim that men don't know how to act around women, as if there was some special way of dealing with women that makes them inherently different from men in a way that could go against the expectations of modern gender equality politics.

This is a general statement, there are deviations of course: Men tend to (often aggressively) challenge each others ideas, building off of the criticism. Women prefer a more nurturing approach. Hell, I would prefer a more nurturing approach :)

Re: HackerSurfing: Free Housing and Food for Engineers Visiting SF

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>get used to being treated the same way. Can you elaborate on this? IMHO women should be treated equally when it makes moral sense. I.e. women's bathrooms need to be larger because of the various things they need to do in there, not just societal norm things but things like changing tampons, pads. The menstrual cycle also affects productivity and is essentially a reoccurring medical issue that needs regular treatment…

Why do separate bathrooms need to be a thing? Many/most homes don't bother.

I don't think cleanliness is the biggest issue when it comes to shared bathrooms since both men and women can be clean or messy. As a woman I would be most concerned about periods. Some women try to hide when they are on their period for various reasons. If you are sharing a bathroom either everybody will know you are on your period (and the guys would have to be okay with tampons and such) or you would have to hide all of your feminine products which would be annoying.

Re: HackerSurfing: Free Housing and Food for Engineers Visiting SF

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I really hope that some day there is an all female or at least half female hacker house. I really like the idea of a hacker house and love being around smart tech people but some guys don't know how to act around women (I'm sorry but there are guys like that out there and many of them are hackers). It is even worse if you are one of the only single woman in a close community. I've heard from male friends that live in…

Integration through segregation.

Re: HackerSurfing: Free Housing and Food for Engineers Visiting SF

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Why do separate bathrooms need to be a thing? Many/most homes don't bother.

I don't think cleanliness is the biggest issue when it comes to shared bathrooms since both men and women can be clean or messy. As a woman I would be most concerned about periods. Some women try to hide when they are on their period for various reasons. If you are sharing a bathroom either everybody will know you are on your period (and the guys would have to be okay with tampons and such) or you would have to hide…

I think all of these reasons are pretty weak. What I do know is that it creates a uniquely horrible situation for people who are transgender/transitioning. I admit that periods are the closest thing to a biological reason to have differences in bathroom facilities, but mostly I think that it's a holdover of 19th century sexism.

Re: HackerSurfing: Free Housing and Food for Engineers Visiting SF

#188
post #159

This should be done in a bigger way, with founders and startuppers offering their couch like people do in www.couchsurfing.com... It would be more than awesome

There used to be Startup Stay [ ] Not sure what happened to it. http://venturebeat.com/2012/08/09/startup-stay-lets-you-cras...

They pivoted to Bizpora, then sold to co-founders lab.

Re: HackerSurfing: Free Housing and Food for Engineers Visiting SF

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Women's public restrooms are almost always much worse than men's- this is something that has been echoed by every janitor I've ever talked to and accurately reflects my own experiences as well. That's not to say any public restrooms are generally good, but the idea that women are somehow cleaner than men really needs to die.

That's weird, all the janitors I know have said its true that women's bathrooms are better kept than men's, and my own experience and friends anecdotes also reflects that. Perhaps there's a demographic aspect to it.

My daughter is a student at a top-20 college in the country and shares the bathroom with 3 other girls. They are all as messy (if not more) than my son's male roommates (also in college).

Another note, I remember reading somewhere that the amount of bacteria found in bathrooms is much higher in ladies-rooms than mensrooms. May or may not be the result of overall messiness, though :-)

Re: HackerSurfing: Free Housing and Food for Engineers Visiting SF

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I find the assumption that girls are less messy than boys kind of naive and stereotypical. I suppose messy is ambiguous, does it mean clean or organized? I remember living in the dorms my first year of college, and I was amused to note that the average boys dorm room was more organized and the average girls dorm room was cleaner. Of course, that is just my experience.

I find women are messier but also clean more. So more stuff left lying around but less grime. Where as guys will put stuff away but won't even know if there is a mop in the house. Completely generalising here based on my own experiences.

What's a mop?
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