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> I wasn't attempting to veil it at all. It is a control issue. Then do not hide it behind the "people just want to scratch their own itch". It is a bad rationalization for a much deeper issue and the way to overcome this is by bringing awareness to it, not by finding excuses. > wants to keep some hold on the core direction. You are really losing me here. The point from the beginning is that the idea of "direction" i…
> Then do not hide it behind the "people just want to scratch their own itch" You seem to be latching on to individual sentences in individual posts rather than understanding the thread from my initial post downwards. Start from the top and see if that changes. Right from the beginning I was walking about people not releasing source for this reason, not releasing with expectations of control – while quoting more of t…
From the top of the thread: "it is difficult to take it seriously if you refuse to offer source code or a implementable specification.". If OP has reservations about building it the open, I'd rather hear "I am not going to open it because I want to keep full control over it" then some vague "I will open it after I complete some other stuff".
You mention the concern about "getting a reputation for not listening". To me, this has already happened. The moment I saw "when I realize it can be used by someone, it will be of course be open source", I'm already doubting his ability to collaborate, I already put him in the "does not understand how FOSS work" box and I completely lost interest in the project.