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Re: Banned from Kickstarter for Being a Stalking Victim

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The commenting here is interesting, as is the post. I have some general comments to make about cyberstalking and situations like this - but want to preface it with the disclaimer that I've never heard of Rachel before and cannot sit in any form of judgement on her . However, I was cyberstalked (and then RL stalked & harassed), so I know that it sucks and it can be dangerous. I have no idea what Rachel's stalker has d…

After doing a bit of googling, I believe what we have here is a set of borderline personalities that are unfortunately drawn together. They have plenty of outlets for their antics; we shouldn't be indulging them here.

I am also a victim of this guy. He harassed me off and on for years. He turned on me after I told him "no" when he asked me to do a favor for him I didn't feel comfortable doing. That was all it took to find myself on his shitlist. While we were "friends" I got to listen to him brag about all the horrible things he'd done to people, mostly women he dated, after they decided to tell him "no" or kick him out of their lives once they realized how crazy he is. He would show me how he was getting so-and-so fired from their job by spoofing emails with child pornography in them to the all@ email aliases of their employers from libraries and hacked DNS servers. He showed me how he made money selling pirated ebooks and sheet music on ebay. And he'd brag about using sockpuppets to build up fake credibility because it's all hearsay on the Internet where the credibility of consensus is only second to hard evidence.

Don't fall for this guy's sockpuppet spam. This is exactly the kind of thing he was doing on Kickstarter, and has done on Reddit, Hackernews, here, Rachel's various blogs, and yes, all the way back to the days of Livejournal being the amazing mecca of social networking.

His name is Jason Christopher Hughes AKA Michael Nath AKA Thylacine AKA antisense is over 40 years old. He's been at this game for a long, long time and has made social engineering an art form.

Most of the posts in here that look like layers of confirmation of "facts" about Rachel are all the same person posting through TOR or I2P. If Hacker News admins were to verify the IPs of most of the other posts attacking Rachel, they'll see a wall of TOR and I2P exit nodes, just as any of us who have checked out the logs of his behavior in the past have been able to see. You let this guy brainwash you into believing all his propaganda against Rachel, and you've just weaponized yourself in his favor. Please do not. Keep an open mind. Use your critical thinking skills. Do not allow the emotional shock value of the propaganda to interfere with your thinking. I know it's hard. It's especially hard because Rachel is a very reactionary individual. She has that rockstar vibe to her, and she doesn't take crap from anyone. That makes her an easy target, clearly, because anytime the "moral high ground" seems a little shaky, it's a vulnerability in her defense against her cyberstalker.

He's been stalking several of us for years. Most of us don't ever talk about him using our typical logins because he'll shit up the administration and our posts until we get banned. He's phenomenally good at turning people against his victims.

Unfortunately it's hard to collect evidence against him. He only attacks maybe 10 or so people at a time. He's never going to become a priority for the FBI or local police because they either have bigger fish to fry or don't understand how to handle him in a way that his behavior can be documented. Making all of this public is a big push for all of us who he's been harassing for over a decade. We're tired of it. We want it to end. We need help.

Not your personal army and all that, sure, but it would be nice if we weren't alone in trying to bring this guy down.

[Edit: Originally posted to /., forgot to change some text for HN. Sorry I'm terrible.]

Re: Banned from Kickstarter for Being a Stalking Victim

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Please read the following in an exasperated tone of voice, because that's what I feel here. The problem is the very public trashing of kickstarter on her blog, combined with the multitude of people who have had run-ins with Rachael over the past few years calling her "crazy" etc. Allegedly the FBI are uninterested in prosecuting the cyber stalker. However since coming across this today I've seen nothing that indicate…

Why is it that people like Rachael always have drama around them? I know people like this. Everyone is out to get them and people are always doing something to them (oh yeah, the world needs to know about it). I feel like she probably brought this onto herself somehow. Stalking is serious, if did happen, something needs to be done.

She always has drama around her because she has some kind of rockstar vibe, she's hyper, and she has what seems like a limitless supply of enthusiasm and good will. I've seen plenty of people like that get shit all over just because they're happy when other people aren't. It doesn't mean she deserves a stalker. Just sayin'.

By comparison I'm a relative nobody, but this same person who stalks Rachel has also stalked me off and on for about a decade because I once told him "no" when he asked me to do something for him I didn't feel comfortable doing. All it takes to trigger stalker-dude is to make him feel slighted in some way.

Re: Banned from Kickstarter for Being a Stalking Victim

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Why is it that people like Rachael always have drama around them? I know people like this. Everyone is out to get them and people are always doing something to them (oh yeah, the world needs to know about it). I feel like she probably brought this onto herself somehow. Stalking is serious, if did happen, something needs to be done.

She always has drama around her because she has some kind of rockstar vibe, she's hyper, and she has what seems like a limitless supply of enthusiasm and good will. I've seen plenty of people like that get shit all over just because they're happy when other people aren't. It doesn't mean she deserves a stalker. Just sayin'. By comparison I'm a relative nobody, but this same person who stalks Rachel has also stalked m…

It takes two to tango.

That is harsh, but it is a lesson I learned from my stalker.

No one deserves to be stalked, and the people that do the stalking and weird and disturbing and evil. But I caused a significant portion of the problem in my drama.

Recognising that is a critical step to making them go away.

Which is possible.

Re: Banned from Kickstarter for Being a Stalking Victim

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I am also a victim of this guy. He harassed me off and on for years. He turned on me after I told him "no" when he asked me to do a favor for him I didn't feel comfortable doing. That was all it took to find myself on his shitlist. While we were "friends" I got to listen to him brag about all the horrible things he'd done to people, mostly women he dated, after they decided to tell him "no" or kick him out of their l…

Re:He's harassed me too. (Score:0) by Anonymous Coward on Saturday April 14, @06:07PM (#39688797)

You're an idiot, or you're lying. Or both.

I do not believe that CP is involved and the FBI won't take the bait. Reply to This Parent Share Flag as Inappropriate

› Re:He's harassed me too. (Score:0) by Anonymous Coward on Saturday April 14, @06:41PM (#39689097)

Let me get this straight.

You know his name and aliases. He also allegedly sends out child porn. He's also doing it to a lot of people for a long time. You still can't get a restraining order on him.

Also, you think [reddit.com] this [reddit.com] and this [reddit.com] are his sockpuppet proxies just to attack you (both active for a long time, write in different styles and on different topics, one registered four years ago, another one - 9 months ago).

No, you totally don't sound mad at all. And noone could suspect yourself of being Rachel's sockpuppet.

Now tell me I'm Jason Christopher Hughes too. Reply to This Parent Share

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Re: Banned from Kickstarter for Being a Stalking Victim

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I am also a victim of this guy. He harassed me off and on for years. He turned on me after I told him "no" when he asked me to do a favor for him I didn't feel comfortable doing. That was all it took to find myself on his shitlist. While we were "friends" I got to listen to him brag about all the horrible things he'd done to people, mostly women he dated, after they decided to tell him "no" or kick him out of their l…

Re:He's harassed me too. (Score:0) by Anonymous Coward on Saturday April 14, @06:07PM (#39688797)

You're an idiot, or you're lying. Or both.

I do not believe that CP is involved and the FBI won't take the bait. Reply to This Parent Share Flag as Inappropriate

› Re:He's harassed me too. (Score:0) by Anonymous Coward on Saturday April 14, @06:41PM (#39689097)

Let me get this straight.

You know his name and aliases. He also allegedly sends out child porn. He's also doing it to a lot of people for a long time. You still can't get a restraining order on him.

Also, you think [reddit.com] this [reddit.com] and this [reddit.com] are his sockpuppet proxies just to attack you (both active for a long time, write in different styles and on different topics, one registered four years ago, another one - 9 months ago).

No, you totally don't sound mad at all. And noone could suspect yourself of being Rachel's sockpuppet.

Now tell me I'm Jason Christopher Hughes too. Reply to This Parent Share

Re: Banned from Kickstarter for Being a Stalking Victim

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I'm going to chalk this one up to growing pains. Dealing with spam is a really difficult problem, especially in unusual cases like this. Their response definitely wasn't great, but if it was causing them a lot of trouble to keep up with the spam on that account, this might be a drain on their likely-small team and detrimental to everyone else using the site by taking their attention. This is a startup, not an enormou…

Yup. There's something ineffably hard about customer service. Ask Craig Newmark, who still does it full time. My company's most important competitive advantage is customer service. My secret to providing superior customer service is treating my customers like they are human beings. It works because my customers are in fact human beings. I think this works because I own the company and do some of my own support. You l…

Yeah, I still do a lot of my own customer service too, and I think it's had a big effect. It can also be really draining, though, so I understand why people want to shield themselves from it, and I can sympathize with a company that just doesn't want to deal with someone's outsized personal drama.

Re: Banned from Kickstarter for Being a Stalking Victim

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post #172

Earlier quoted context omitted.

After doing a bit of googling, I believe what we have here is a set of borderline personalities that are unfortunately drawn together. They have plenty of outlets for their antics; we shouldn't be indulging them here.

I am also a victim of this guy. He harassed me off and on for years. He turned on me after I told him "no" when he asked me to do a favor for him I didn't feel comfortable doing. That was all it took to find myself on his shitlist. While we were "friends" I got to listen to him brag about all the horrible things he'd done to people, mostly women he dated, after they decided to tell him "no" or kick him out of their l…

Re:He's harassed me too. (Score:0) by Anonymous Coward on Saturday April 14, @06:07PM (#39688797)

You're an idiot, or you're lying. Or both.

I do not believe that CP is involved and the FBI won't take the bait. Reply to This Parent Share Flag as Inappropriate

› Re:He's harassed me too. (Score:0) by Anonymous Coward on Saturday April 14, @06:41PM (#39689097)

Let me get this straight.

You know his name and aliases. He also allegedly sends out child porn. He's also doing it to a lot of people for a long time. You still can't get a restraining order on him.

Also, you think [reddit.com] this [reddit.com] and this [reddit.com] are his sockpuppet proxies just to attack you (both active for a long time, write in different styles and on different topics, one registered four years ago, another one - 9 months ago).

No, you totally don't sound mad at all. And noone could suspect yourself of being Rachel's sockpuppet.

Now tell me I'm Jason Christopher Hughes too. Reply to This Parent Share

Re: Banned from Kickstarter for Being a Stalking Victim

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The hunt for my stalker continues yet has been unsuccessful as of now. The FBI having bigger fish to fry. The police say that he is “good at what he does.” Can people like this be stopped if they cannot be found? http://experimenthaywire.net/is-there-a-solution-to-cybersta...

More unsubstiantiated claims from the same source are not really a good foundation for support. I have no bone in this fight, but it seems to me that at the very least, the issue is much more complex than she made it seem in her blog post, and there are a lot of pieces of the puzzle missing. My BS detectors were sounding the alarm, but they always do that when I read unsupported claims.

Re:He's harassed me too. (Score:0) by Anonymous Coward on Saturday April 14, @06:07PM (#39688797)

You're an idiot, or you're lying. Or both.

I do not believe that CP is involved and the FBI won't take the bait. Reply to This Parent Share Flag as Inappropriate

› Re:He's harassed me too. (Score:0) by Anonymous Coward on Saturday April 14, @06:41PM (#39689097)

Let me get this straight.

You know his name and aliases. He also allegedly sends out child porn. He's also doing it to a lot of people for a long time. You still can't get a restraining order on him.

Also, you think [reddit.com] this [reddit.com] and this [reddit.com] are his sockpuppet proxies just to attack you (both active for a long time, write in different styles and on different topics, one registered four years ago, another one - 9 months ago).

No, you totally don't sound mad at all. And noone could suspect yourself of being Rachel's sockpuppet.

Now tell me I'm Jason Christopher Hughes too. Reply to This Parent Share

Re: Banned from Kickstarter for Being a Stalking Victim

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Rachel Mendelson-Haywire-Marone does not _deserve_ ANY privacy. Why is that? Rachel MHM is responsible for a website which featured pictures of people nude and having sex on it. These photos were never public, never on the internet until she and a sugar daddy of hers _purchased_ them from a 3rd party. It took _considerable_ legal resources to get this website down, and this MAKES RACHEL MARONE THE WORST KIND OF STALK…

That is a comment from my stalker. Any traces on his location at Hacker News? His real name is Michael Rudra Nath aka. Jason Christopher Hughes. Can provide documentation from the authorities, case files, addresses, screen shots of his death threats, emails he sent me containing child pornography, etc. -Rachel Marone

I honestly don't care if you can provide his social security number. Can you please not drag this crap into Hacker News?

(also, good god, how many aliases do you have...)

Re: Banned from Kickstarter for Being a Stalking Victim

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This is one of her responses: "As you all know I have a rockin' tight ass, a successful project on Kickstarter that you've all funded, and a cyberstalker that goes by the name of FrankSinatraDirtyTalker1915@comcast.net. I originally met "Frank" back in College, where we dated for a bit. I should point out that he's not an old man, as his username might imply, but rather someone who is simply obsessed with Frank Sinat…

Sounds like a fucking idiot. Which doesn't mean she deserves to be harassed. But WTF @ that comment! Who would want to give someone who talks like that any of their money?

Not sure if it helps your perspective or not, but the quoted material was written by our stalker rather than Rachel. He has many accounts on social networking sites and manufactures credibility by replying to his own posts with links to posts on other sites (usually ones he's written). He's been doing this for a long time. Even I have a hard time sorting out the sock puppets from the non-sock puppets sometimes. He's a brilliant, evil, genius. I would be jelly if I hadn't seen how he actually lives and had a glimpse at his mental illness.

For instance, he has this really bizarre fascination with women named Vanessa and Rachel. He's been "married" twice, once to a Vanessa and once to a Rachel. He has this compulsion to have three women at once (named Vanessa or Rachel) that he describes in metaphysical terms.

He does tons of designer hallucinogens he buys from labs in Japan. He often talks about himself in psycho-spiritual terms of superiority, such as "I've gone farther out than any mage. I flew right past [Carlos] Castaneda into expanses of the abyss he'll never know".

More often than not I find myself feeling sorry for him. Until, of course, he goes on the offensive again.

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