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According to a recent study reported by Reuters, child birth in a hospital setting is far safer: https://www.reuters.com/article/us-health-homebirths-newborn... Skin-to-skin contact immediately after birth is pretty common in hospital settings now. You shouldn't care about it all being a "lovely" or "natural" experience. You should care that everyone gets out safely. Birth can be a brutal and deadly affair.
What's wrong with it being a lovely experience? Couldn't we assume that OP's hierarchy includes the "everyone gets out safely" box having been ticked? This is like saying cars should not be enjoyable because they exist purely to move us around.
It shouldn't be a priority. At all. If it happens to also be a lovely experience, that's of course fine. But it's not something to plan around when it significantly reduces the chance of everyone being safe.
> Couldn't we assume that OP's hierarchy includes the "everyone gets out safely" box having been ticked?
They didn't have a hospital birth, so no. It's not a box that was sufficiently ticked.
> This is like saying cars should not be enjoyable because they exist purely to move us around.
This is like buying a two seater sports car and putting your child's car seat up front. It might be more enjoyable for you, and it'll probably be fine most of the time, but it's significantly more dangerous for your child.
My post might sound harsh, but continuing to spout the "benefits" of a home birth is just plain dangerous when the facts don't support safety. I feel the harshness is appropriate.