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There's a difference between being honest and clear and being a jerk. Most humans are not so bad at figuring that out.
I agree, although my point was that some people just want to have fun doing something, their goal isn't necessarily to get really good at it or to do it correctly. Many prefer doing things their own way rather than the right way, so they might not like being constantly told what they should do.
No shit. I said, 'most people are not so bad at figuring this out'.
You're conflating an approach to niche skill development with jerks who don't know how to behave in public. They're not the same thing, and again, most normal people seem more than capable of figuring this out.