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This has been my experience with Germany / Switzerland as well. Very punishment-based
Yes, it's called social responsibility. Vauban is very special and strange even for German eyes. But one thing is abundantly clear among many German communities: The egocentric individualism where all the problems you produce are offloaded to some ephemeral society funded by taxes you don't want to pay is not sustainable unless you exploit external communities around you.
Conversely if you need to do laundry in your apartment building on a holiday because you're a single parent, that's an outrage. The person leaving all the racist and xenophobic notes about respecting local traditions is a model citizen.