Earlier quoted context omitted.
It depends on who you are. The median person doesn't fly. But a round trip flight from Shanghai to New York is 3.4 tons of carbon, pretty close to the average global anual per capita emissions of 4.0 tons.
You need to divide that 3.4 tons of carbon by the ~270 people on each flight
Roughly half the takeoff weight of an airliner is fuel. The fuel burned on a continental-distance (3000+ km / 2000+ mile) flight is roughly equal to the passenger's weight. CO2 emissions by mass exceed the mass of the fuel by a factor of three, as you're adding the mass of the oxygen that's added, far more than the hydrogen that's split off.
https://www.engineeringtoolbox.com/co2-emission-fuels-d_1085...
For a 747, roughly, takeoff, climb and descent require a fixed share of fuel, 7840 kg, and take about 250km (30.1 kg/km), cruise, another 10.1 kg/km. Shorter flights are comparatively worse, but what gets you in long-haul flights is simply the total distance: about 12,000 km for each leg of that Shanghai-NYC trip. And that's allocated across about 420 passengers.
https://www.sciencefocus.com/future-technology/how-many-cars...
Back-of-the-envelope estimates: At Shanghai-NYC distances, that's 34,300 kg of fuel vs. about 420 * 100 kg/passenger total allowance (rough numbers), or roughly 3x the fuel mass per passenger, per leg, or 9x the CO2 emissions mass. That works out to about 1.8 tonnes based on my figures and maths, which is lower than your parent, but probably assumes too large a plane and too many passengers for a long-distance flight.
But yes: tonnes of CO2 emissions per passenger for round-trip international travel is about right.