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A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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I have looked suicide in the eyes before. And reading the case file for this is absolutely horrific. He wanted help. He was heading in the direction of help, and he was stopped from getting it. He wanted his parents to find out about his plan. I know this feeling. It is the clawing feeling of knowing that you want to live, despite feeling like you want to die. We are living in such a horrific moment. We need these th…

>We need these things to be legislated. Punished.

I disagree. We don't need the government to force companies to babysit people instead of allowing people to understand their options. It's purely up to the individual to decide what they want to do with their life.

>They had the tools to stop the conversation.

So did the user. If he didn't want to talk to a chatbot he could have stopped at any time.

>To steer the user into helpful avenues.

Having AI purposefully manipulate its users towards the morals of the company is more harmful.

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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The kid intentionally bypassed the safeguards: >When ChatGPT detects a prompt indicative of mental distress or self-harm, it has been trained to encourage the user to contact a help line. Mr. Raine saw those sorts of messages again and again in the chat, particularly when Adam sought specific information about methods. But Adam had learned how to bypass those safeguards by saying the requests were for a story he was…

> ChatGPT is a program. The kid basically instructed it to behave like that. I don't think that's the right paradigm here. These models are hyper agreeable. They are intentionally designed to mimic human thought and social connection. With that kind of machine, "Suicidal person deliberately bypassed safeguards to indulge more deeply in their ideation" still seems like a pretty bad failure mode to me. > Vanilla OpenAI…

> They deliberately are designed to mimic human thought and social connection.

No, they are deliberately designed to mimic human communication via language, not human thought. (And one of the big sources of data for that was mass scraping social media.)

> But this, to me, feels like a sign we probably don't have the right guardrails. Quantity and quality are different things.

Right. Focus on quantity implies that the details of "guardrails" don't matter, and that any guardrail is functionally interchangeable with any other guardrail, so as long as you have the right number of them, you have the desired function.

In fact, correct function is having the exactly the right combination of guardrails. Swapping a guardrail which would be correct with a different one isn't "having the right number of guardrails", or even merely closer to correct than either missing the correct one or having the different one, but in fact, farther from ideal state than either error alone.

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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post #154

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The kid intentionally bypassed the safeguards: >When ChatGPT detects a prompt indicative of mental distress or self-harm, it has been trained to encourage the user to contact a help line. Mr. Raine saw those sorts of messages again and again in the chat, particularly when Adam sought specific information about methods. But Adam had learned how to bypass those safeguards by saying the requests were for a story he was…

This is kind of like saying "the driver intentionally unbuckled his seatbelt". Sure — that's why cars have airbags, crumple zones, shatterproof glass, automatic emergency brakes and a zillion other ways to keep you safe, even if you're trying to do something dangerous.

Except the car doesn’t tell you how to disable the seatbelt, which is what ChatGPT did (gave him the idea of the workaround)

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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I have looked suicide in the eyes before. And reading the case file for this is absolutely horrific. He wanted help. He was heading in the direction of help, and he was stopped from getting it. He wanted his parents to find out about his plan. I know this feeling. It is the clawing feeling of knowing that you want to live, despite feeling like you want to die. We are living in such a horrific moment. We need these th…

>We need these things to be legislated. Punished. I disagree. We don't need the government to force companies to babysit people instead of allowing people to understand their options. It's purely up to the individual to decide what they want to do with their life. >They had the tools to stop the conversation. So did the user. If he didn't want to talk to a chatbot he could have stopped at any time. >To steer the user…

So people that look to chatgpt for answers and help (as they've been programmed to do with all the marketing and capabilities from openai) should just die because they looked to chatgpt for an answer instead of google or their local suicide helpline? That doesn't seem reasonable, but it sounds to me like what you're saying.

> So did the user. If he didn't want to talk to a chatbot he could have stopped at any time. This sounds similar to when people tell depressed people, just stop being sad.

IMO if a company is going to claim and release some pretty disruptive and unexplored capabilities through their product, they should at least have to make it safe. You put a safety railing because people could trip or slip. I don't think a mistake that small should be end in death.

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

#176

I have looked suicide in the eyes before. And reading the case file for this is absolutely horrific. He wanted help. He was heading in the direction of help, and he was stopped from getting it. He wanted his parents to find out about his plan. I know this feeling. It is the clawing feeling of knowing that you want to live, despite feeling like you want to die. We are living in such a horrific moment. We need these th…

>We need these things to be legislated. Punished. I disagree. We don't need the government to force companies to babysit people instead of allowing people to understand their options. It's purely up to the individual to decide what they want to do with their life. >They had the tools to stop the conversation. So did the user. If he didn't want to talk to a chatbot he could have stopped at any time. >To steer the user…

> allowing people to understand their options.

Which is what a suicidal person has a hard time doing. That's why they need help.

We need to start viewing mental problems as what they are. You wouldn't tell somebody who broke their leg to get it together and just walk again. You'd bring them to the hospital. A mental problem is no different.

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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I have looked suicide in the eyes before. And reading the case file for this is absolutely horrific. He wanted help. He was heading in the direction of help, and he was stopped from getting it. He wanted his parents to find out about his plan. I know this feeling. It is the clawing feeling of knowing that you want to live, despite feeling like you want to die. We are living in such a horrific moment. We need these th…

>We need these things to be legislated. Punished. I disagree. We don't need the government to force companies to babysit people instead of allowing people to understand their options. It's purely up to the individual to decide what they want to do with their life. >They had the tools to stop the conversation. So did the user. If he didn't want to talk to a chatbot he could have stopped at any time. >To steer the user…

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Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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I wonder if we can shift the framing on these issues. The LLM didn't do anything, it has no agency, it can bear no responsibility. OpenAI did these things. It is accountable for what it does, regardless of the sophistication of the tools it uses to do them, and regardless of intent. OpenAI drove a boy to suicide. More than once. The law must be interpreted this way, otherwise any action can be wrapped in machine lear…

The frame will immediately shift to that frame if this enters legal proceedings. The law always views things as you say - only people have agency.

I predict the OpenAI legal team will argue that if a person should be held responsible, it should be the person who originally wrote the content about suicide that their LLM was trained on, and that the LLM is just a mechanism that passes the knowledge through. But if they make this argument, then some of their copyright arguments would be in jeopardy.

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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Thank you, “we just have to accept that these systems will occasionally kill children” is a perfect example of the type of mindset I was criticizing.

If we banned everything that contributed to the death of children we'd eventually have nothing left to ban.

Contributing to and facilitating are 2 very different things. This was more the latter.

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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I wonder if we can shift the framing on these issues. The LLM didn't do anything, it has no agency, it can bear no responsibility. OpenAI did these things. It is accountable for what it does, regardless of the sophistication of the tools it uses to do them, and regardless of intent. OpenAI drove a boy to suicide. More than once. The law must be interpreted this way, otherwise any action can be wrapped in machine lear…

Yes, if this were an adult human OpenAI employee DMing this stuff to a kid through an official OpenAI platform, then a) the human would (deservedly[1]) be arrested for manslaughter, possibly murder b) OpenAI would be deeply (and deservedly) vulnerable to civil liability c) state and federal regulators would be on the warpath against OpenAI Obviously we can't arrest ChatGPT. But nothing about ChatGPT being the culprit…

> state and federal regulators would be on the warpath against OpenAI

As long as lobbies and donators can work against that, this will be hard. Suck up to Trump and you will be safe.

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