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I used to live near a down syndrome living facility. Essentially a house converted into a care facility in a neighborhood. ~8 - 10 people with downs lived there. Very few visitors (parents), almost all the cars belonged to the nurses. Isolated from everyone they lived around and kept away from the neighbors (I'm sure to the neighbors relief). required constant care. I don't think its a life most would choose.
If you never interacted with the residents there, how are you so sure it was so bad? Nevermind the people in the group home — on what basis did you acquire the belief that the neighbors were “relieved” not to interact with them? Maybe you’re right and this situation was terrible for everyone. Is this arrangement required? Is it the best we can do? I don’t think most people would choose to live a life with many common…
Also they had an ambulance or fire truck there at least once every couple months.