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Here's the problem. If the company offers you 600k salary then the dance is now worth it. The other problem is after lay offs, if all companies ask you to dance then you have no choice. Dance or stay unemployed. Obviously nobody wants to "dance" and nobody would if they had the choice.
So the only thing you can say in response is giving excuses why people must dance? Sometimes you’re desperate and will do things you otherwise wouldn’t. That isn’t and should be thought of as the norm
Here's the thing, when you look at the behavior of large groups of people the overall incentive is the overall outcome. As an individual you can resist but groups act predictably and follow straightforward patterns.
Think of it like drugs. You going to tell people to stop doing heroin and end the problem forever? No. You gonna tell people to stop dancing and end the problem forever? No.
The only thing that will bend the industry in favor of your idea is software unions. Centralized control can influence individuals to act in cohesion. Without leadership the short term incentive wins.