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I have mixed experiences. The evangelism on HN and reddit can be stifling. Particularly the overemphasis on "safety". The community on discord was very helpful though, when I was struggling. I feel like the community is large enough that you can find a lot of more normal people using it, and just avoid the zealots.
I don't think safety or correctness can be over-emphasized.
Different conversation though.