I've long been skeptical of ITER making any sense given its insane cost. I mean even it succeeds, then what? Here's the truth: there's no such thing as free energy. Even if the fuel is so abundant it's actually or effectively free (eg deuterium), the energy isn't. Say it takes $50B to build a plant that produces 1GW of power, which I'll estimate at about 7TWh/year based on [1]. Let's also say it has a lifespan of 40…
It seems you're suffering from "neutron embitterment." ;P Space-based solar power generation (itself "fusion power" in the loosest sense) would be great in the inner planets. Though to open up the outer planets, Kuiper belt, Oort Cloud, and any other stars, we'll need non-solar* power: hopefully fusion, at least fission. *Unless we want to go the stellaser route, but I'd bet we'll crack fusion before getting near K2.
H-3 is not nearly so scarce as cletus suggests. It is uncommon, but you don't need much.