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That's not how I see jQuery hate. jQuery promotes bad development patterns, AND brings a cost for end users. Developers will do themselves and futures devs a favor by not choosing to use it. Is it really gatekeeping to expect people to be aware of commonly used 10 year old features? I assume developers who share YMNNJQ are just sick of inheriting messy projects built with jQuery. I know I am.
You've never inherited a terrible, unmaintainable React or Angular app? I have on multiple occasions, and in fact my team is dealing with one right now. I'd prefer a jQuery mess to an Angular/React mess any day of the week. With old-school jQuery apps, at least I can get them to build and can debug the control flow.
Part of my screening process is making sure something like that doesn't fall in my lap again. Even static sites aren't safe these days.