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NIBs in macOS/iOS are horrible for development and code review. Using a UI to build UI is slow and clunky. There is no "moving past" it. That's a bad way to develop stuff. We don't do it with HTML, do we? No.
Absolutely, most big mobile development teams I know do not use storyboards or NIBs because they are not easily human reviewable. (A small change will rearrange sections for seemlying no reason.)
Storyboards are great - they simply force separation of concerns among developers.
One person handles one part of the app, and other people keep their hands off of it.
Each person has their storyboard/collection of nib files.
Multiple people should absolutely not be tinkering with the same files randomly - obviously I hope.
As for things rearranging for 'no reason' - it'd help if people took 2 days to understand auto layout. Every person I've ever met who dislikes sql, or storyboards/auto layout etc, simply doesn't understand what is happening.
It's trivial to create a mess in auto layout, if you don't know what you're doing, just like people create cocoapod soup in every other iOS project. There is no silver bullet for curing mediocrity - just make sure you're not part of the problem :)