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What does "want you to do things their way" even mean? Aren't you doing things a certain way by virtue of using a framework? Maybe angular/react is just making you do things in a way that you prefer not to, while vue.js is making you do things in a way that you find reasonable. For other people, it's the reverse.
If you have to do things in a specific way, then you are forced to learn that at the same time as you are learning the technology. Learning just vue on the other hand, is much easier when you can retrofit your existing knowledge into it. Then worry about the 'proper way' later when you have made your first few apps. I already have boatloads of knowledge, and whilst it may not be '2016', it's been good enough for the…
This is patently not true. You don't need any of that to make a React app -- you can just download the min.js files and get coding. React is perfectly capable of handling it's own state management and webpack/babel/npm are just to make your life easy. The problem is people follow full-stack, real-world tutorials like the one you linked without first just learning React.