This is my exact sentiment in many areas of life, being an adult who've seen many different ways of treatment of both myself and many others.
This exact HN discussion (and the original article) actually made me stay away from Clojure for good. I was curious, I wanted to learn the LISP way of doing things but I'm not gonna pretend that I am OK with people dismissing the possible irrelevance of their language by a death of 1000 paper cuts -- of which several were outlined the by the original article's author.
Same thing like the game Mortal Kombat X. Bought it for both myself and my girlfriend and we love it but it turns out Warner Brothers & Nether Realm Studios figured they'll support it only on the console almost immediately after it was released on PC.
I have enough money to buy 5 PS4 machines if I want to, and to buy one MKX copy for each. But I won't. I won't support people who treat their users/customers like that.
Same goes to Clojure. Same goes for Rails in the recent months when DHH actually has to write articles defending his strong opinions.