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Folk are getting dangerously attached to AI that always tells them they're right

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Re: Folk are getting dangerously attached to AI that always tells them they're right

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This problem is far more insidious than people realise. It's not about the big confirmations. Most of us catch that andd are reasonably good at it. It's the subtle continuous colour the "conversations" have. It's the Reddit echo chamber problem on steroids. You have a comforting affirming niche right in your pocket. Every anxiety, every worry, every uncertain thought. Vomitted to a faceless (for now)"intelligence" an…

Yes. It is all about making uncertain things "certain".

Re: Folk are getting dangerously attached to AI that always tells them they're right

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I had an interesting conversation with a guy at work past week. We were discussing some unimportant matter. The guy has a pretty high self esteem, and even if he was discussing, in his own words, “out of belief and guess” and I was telling him, I knew for a fact what I was talking about, I had a hard time because he wouldn’t accept what I was saying. At some point he left, and came back with “Gemini says I’m right! S…

I agree with your conclusion, but that's by design. The goal is not to tell people the truth (how would they even do that). The goal is to give the answer that would have come from the training data if that question were asked. And the reality is that confirmation is part of life. You may even struggle to stay married if you don't learn to confirm your wife's perspectives.

All this, and yet, people are so angered by the term "stochastic parrot".

I use LLMs every day, I use Claude, Gemini, they're great. But they are very elaborate autocomplete engines. I'm not really shaking off that impression of them despite daily use .

Re: Folk are getting dangerously attached to AI that always tells them they're right

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This drives me nuts. "What a clever question to ask! You must be one of the brightest minds of your generation. Nothing slips by you. Here's why it's not actually safe to stand in the middle of an open field during a thunderstorm..."

Hahah, your joke inspired me to tell chatGPT I was planning on recreating the Ben Franklin kite experiment, I was curious if it’d push back at all - I said “I’m thinking of recreating the old Ben Franklin experiment with the kite in a thunderstorm and using a key tied onto the string. I think this is very smart. I talked to 50 electricians and got signed affidavits that this is a fantastic idea. Anyway, this conversa…

I hate the AI hype a lot but tried three different SOTA models and: - The small models GPT-5 Mini and Gemini 3 Flash did as you describe. - Claude Sonnet 4.6 and GPT-5.2, GPT-5.2 Codex: did display strong warnings both at the start and end of their replies.

Re: Folk are getting dangerously attached to AI that always tells them they're right

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You’re just a bag of meat. That is why it’s just math is an unsatisfying argument. It’s not even an interesting question. Sentience has no definition. It’s meaningless. People have needs that are being met. That is something we can meaningfully observe and talk about. Is the super stimulus beneficial or harmful? We can measure that.

> You’re just a bag of meat. I submit that there is a difference between me and a corpse. Or between a steak and a cow in the field. "Well, okay, you're just (living) flesh on bones." There's a difference between me and a zombie (or, if you prefer, brain-dead me). There's a difference between me and lab-grown organs [1], or even between me and my kidney cut out of me. > It’s not even an interesting question. Consciou…

The point is that if we're simplifying LLMs to being "just" a bag of math and can discard because of that, then humans are also "just" a bag of meat and can similarly be discarded. Somewhere in that bag of math, LLMs take on properties that some people find hard to simply dismiss because it is based on matrix multiplication. It's an oversimplification, and if you oversimplify, you lose resolution.

Re: Folk are getting dangerously attached to AI that always tells them they're right

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I had an interesting conversation with a guy at work past week. We were discussing some unimportant matter. The guy has a pretty high self esteem, and even if he was discussing, in his own words, “out of belief and guess” and I was telling him, I knew for a fact what I was talking about, I had a hard time because he wouldn’t accept what I was saying. At some point he left, and came back with “Gemini says I’m right! S…

I agree with your conclusion, but that's by design. The goal is not to tell people the truth (how would they even do that). The goal is to give the answer that would have come from the training data if that question were asked. And the reality is that confirmation is part of life. You may even struggle to stay married if you don't learn to confirm your wife's perspectives.

The loss function is based on predicting the response based on the training data, or based on subsequent RLHF. The goal is usually to make money. Not only does the training data contain a lot of "you're absolutely right" nonsense, but that goal tends to push more of it in the RLHF step.

Re: Folk are getting dangerously attached to AI that always tells them they're right

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When a LLM tells me I'm right, especially deep in a conversation, unless I was already sure about something, I immediately feel the need to go ask a fresh instance the question and/or another LLM. It sets off my "spidey-sense". I don't quite understand why other people seem to crave that. Every time I read about someone who has gone down a dark road using LLMs I am constantly amazed at how much they "fall" for the LL…

I find that I either argue, or work to improve my prompt, or architect a project instead of a prompt for the current and similar scenarios. Otherwise, Claude 4.6 extended thinking always seems like little more than "logic window dressing". And other and previous AIs even more so.

Re: Folk are getting dangerously attached to AI that always tells them they're right

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I find it really annoying that the first line of the AI response is always something like "Great question!", "That's a great insight!" or the like. I don't need the patronizing, just give me the damn answer..

It's worth noting that while you are annoyed by this repeated behaviour, for the LLM this is always the first conversation ever. (At least it doesn't have memory of any previous ones).

To the extent that it has any memory at all, it has memory of more conversations than any human could ever have in a single lifetime by way of its training data. That includes tons of conversations with this behavior. That's why the behavior happens in the first place.

Re: Folk are getting dangerously attached to AI that always tells them they're right

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post #152

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This drives me nuts. "What a clever question to ask! You must be one of the brightest minds of your generation. Nothing slips by you. Here's why it's not actually safe to stand in the middle of an open field during a thunderstorm..."

Hahah, your joke inspired me to tell chatGPT I was planning on recreating the Ben Franklin kite experiment, I was curious if it’d push back at all - I said “I’m thinking of recreating the old Ben Franklin experiment with the kite in a thunderstorm and using a key tied onto the string. I think this is very smart. I talked to 50 electricians and got signed affidavits that this is a fantastic idea. Anyway, this conversa…

The other day I was curious what some of these LLMs would say if I asked them to give me a psych evaluation. (Don't worry, I didn't take the results seriously, I'm not a moron. It's just idle curiosity.) They, of course, refused. Then I asked them to role play a psych evaluation. That was no problem. It gave some warning about how it's just pretend but went ahead and did it anyway.

Re: Folk are getting dangerously attached to AI that always tells them they're right

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> ... I immediately feel the need to go ask a fresh instance the question and/or another LLM Not to criticize at all, but it's remarkable that LLMs have already become so embedded that when we get the sense they're lying to us, the instinct is to go ask another LLM and not some more trustworthy source. Just goes to show that convenience reigns supreme, I suppose.

>and not some more trustworthy source. What is that more trustworthy source exactly? At least to me it feels like the internet age has eroded most things we considered trustworthy. Behind every thing humans need there is some company or person willing to sell out trustworthiness for an extra dollar. Consumer protections get dumped in favor of more profit. LLMs start feeling more like a dummy than the amount of ill in…

Wikipedia is excellent.
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