I’ll give you a real example, and it aligns with one of your feature goals that you mentioned elsewhere in these threads: allow you to rate limit without change on the client side.
I have a workload that processes transactions for P external partners (P>1000) in a market with diverse technology sets; some partners are aggregated behind MSPs and some we integrate with directly, and so those P partners represent say 500 unique destinations. This workload handles This is not a strange architecture, it represents the fact that every business-system has a lifecycle, there are legacy xml cruft and shiny graphql both exposed to the world and sitting next to each other, making money, and nearly every integrator has this. These systems go down, or networks become unavailable, or they perform maintenance, or maybe they can only support 2 concurrent connections - and every partner is different. Some MSPs come in and get some % of the market for handling this for businesses that don’t have the capability, but there are many that do.
If you were in the business of exposing products that use these services, would you want your engineers having to care about any of it? Me neither, and so it is CRITICAL that we operationalize it, which for a store-and-forward integration workload basically ends up being an operational tool for queues and their destinations.
I do not however find any tools that meet our requirements, which are simply “allow an operations/support team to manage transaction T for partner P who may be hiding behind MSP M” which includes rate limiting, circuit breaker, observability, routing, deployment, billing etc etc. This is IMO tied very closely to the queue - it is in fact the workload’s primary data store - and I do not understand why queue providers don’t differentiate their offerings with this kind of management capability.
If I think about a business journey from startup to enterprise, maybe a small shop does not need this - they only support a small number of transactions and a small number of partners. As they grow, this requires engineering, and so they just build the tools they need to scale. But it doesn’t have to be that way.