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In the end you're only pressured as much as you allow yourself to be pressured. "I don't feel like it, if it's important to you then feel free to fork". That's really all that's needed. "I don't feel like it" is all the justification you need. Some guy just made a compression tool, because some people like doing that kind of thing, or because it was useful for him. He didn't ask to be made "critical infrastructure" o…
"I don't feel like it, if it's important to you then feel free to fork". That's really all that's needed. that's much harder than it sounds. having someone fork your project can give you the feeling of loosing control over the project as potentially all your users might go with the fork. that fear is often strong enough to push yourself to do things that will avoid a fork. it's a desire for harmony and a fear of conf…
That's the issue right there. Why would you care?
Clearly, the maintainer is invested in having a "community". Why? They must expect something positive coming out of it, so they are invested in having that community, which then means they have something to lose if that community moves somewhere else and they are left behind.
That's what enables this social exploit. A takeaway can be not to get so invested in having a community. These are users of your software, and their "utility" is in helping find bugs, perhaps suggest improvements or even provide patches, making the thing you as the original author made better. But that can clearly become a burden.