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Losing two jobs in one year

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This is something i think has been slowly changing in the US. At least among the people i know. Work is now just work. Five years ago it had to be your passion it is what you wanted or at least i wanted to be defined by. After seeing how little any company cares about people work is what i try to spend the least amount of time doing. At 5 or ideally 4 i clock out and only respond if I am paged. Additionally i have ch…

It’s tricky. I used to have a passion which was a small bootstrapped side business, then due to life circumstances I had to give up on that.

I found that getting more invested in my 9-5 and my coworkers made it easier to get through the day, cause if not, good god it would be hard.

But now oh don’t get too invested as a guard against getting laid off…

Like I said, it’s tricky.

I do agree on signing off latest at 5 unless absolutely needed to tho, you’re just punking yourself otherwise

Re: Losing two jobs in one year

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The health insurance aspect of the story seems intentionally dramatized, the author forgets to mention being able to opt in to COBRA altogether if their insurance ran out. Stories like this are also why a lot of women now are embracing the tradwife trend.

Have some empathy, or even a sense of perspective: imagine how it may be interpreted by someone going through it, health issues can feel overwhelming and inescapable.

> Stories like this are also why a lot of women now are embracing the tradwife trend.

Lol, sources please

Re: Losing two jobs in one year

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FAANGs just stopped being interesting for me at 26. The realisation dawned that life is really not that long and it really doesn't matter how good you are. Before that it was a race to learn as much as possible with every waking moment. Doing that for years and years until you're given the opportunity to keep doing it for even more became incredibly boring. It's like it's not enough that you aim to be slave but you n…

The tRPC comment hits home… what have I been doing with my life?

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Re: Losing two jobs in one year

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Whenever I read articles like this, I’m so grateful that in the U.K. healthcare is not tied to your job. The NHS may struggle and have its issues. But I have never had to experience the stress of the thought of losing access to care.

Then she would have waited 10 months for a CT scan instead of 10 days.

She would have to do that due to the defunding of socialized healthcare in many countries to channel profits to private healthcare and make people like you say that 'Socialized healthcare doesnt work' so that they can come up later and say 'Lets privatize it'.

This is called 'strangle it then save it', and its the method that was used to privatize healthcare services in the West since the 80s. Starting with the US one...

Re: Losing two jobs in one year

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As others have mentioned, the relationship between employee and employer seems to be more openly regarded as a business arrangement (which it always was) and not as much of a place-to-be-loyal-to than I’ve historically seen. Getting let go can cause lasting problems, specially for a person’s self-esteem or confidence.

With so many being let go lately I think the sentiment is also changing a bit. You’re hired to make money for the employer, or solve problems to reduce costs. But now, even if you meet all of your requirements you can still be let go because the company’s shareholders aren’t seeing the growth they want despite the company being wildly profitable anyway.

So what’s the point in giving your free time (after work hours) to a place, or sacrificing real life things, when the company will just drop you whenever for whatever anyway? The illusion of loyalty is breaking and I think that’s a good thing.

Loyalty to a company, IMO, largely results in holding your career back if you’re shirking better things for the “good enough” thing you have now because you’re loyal. But the company isn’t loyal to you, and specially not if they’re under some sort of pressure to cut costs. Not saying don’t work to your fullest or apply yourself, or never go beyond, because those things are kind of part of work, but the undying loyalty is wilting.

Add to that the difficulty of finding jobs because companies made stupid short-term decisions (probably knowing they were gonna need to drop people later) in the name of quick money during COVID, and you’re left feeling pretty dejected about the whole thing.

Work, get paid, look after you. Company will look after itself. If they don’t, move on and make sure you’re okay. The company’s health is not your problem (assuming you’re doing your work) unless you’re one of the folk responsible for its life.

Re: Losing two jobs in one year

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The health insurance aspect of the story seems intentionally dramatized, the author forgets to mention being able to opt in to COBRA altogether if their insurance ran out. Stories like this are also why a lot of women now are embracing the tradwife trend.

Your outlook on life seems to be incredibly negative and engrained in finding fault in everything. Nitpicking this article over this doesn’t make a lot of sense, and your strange comment about women less so. Perhaps take some time to re-examine why you’re so toxic. Based on how pale your comment history is, it’s not new either

Re: Losing two jobs in one year

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> addiction to food and shelter You didn't get hooked on dihydrogen oxide? That's the worst, a very difficult addiction to kick. Hang in there!

If you like dihydrogen oxide, I highly recommend you try to inhale a mix of 79% nitrogen and 21% oxygen once in a while.

"Huffing ox", very dangerous indeed.

Re: Losing two jobs in one year

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post #164

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Then she would have waited 10 months for a CT scan instead of 10 days.

She would have to do that due to the defunding of socialized healthcare in many countries to channel profits to private healthcare and make people like you say that 'Socialized healthcare doesnt work' so that they can come up later and say 'Lets privatize it'. This is called 'strangle it then save it', and its the method that was used to privatize healthcare services in the West since the 80s. Starting with the US on…

You are free to believe whatever fits your narrative.

You are also free to make wild, entirely off-base assumptions about what I believe.

Re: Losing two jobs in one year

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Whenever I read articles like this, I’m so grateful that in the U.K. healthcare is not tied to your job. The NHS may struggle and have its issues. But I have never had to experience the stress of the thought of losing access to care.

I really wish NHS was as good in practice as people praise it online. Even seeing a GP is now a fight with the system.

It's still got to be better than dying in the streets because you couldn't find a job?

Re: Losing two jobs in one year

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post #48

This is something i think has been slowly changing in the US. At least among the people i know. Work is now just work. Five years ago it had to be your passion it is what you wanted or at least i wanted to be defined by. After seeing how little any company cares about people work is what i try to spend the least amount of time doing. At 5 or ideally 4 i clock out and only respond if I am paged. Additionally i have ch…

Goodwill dissipates hard when your remote only company starts mandating an injection.

I've always assumed that vaccination requirements were just intelligence tests in disguise.
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